Unit 11 Conflict and Compromise 单元写作作业设计-2026-2027学年高中英语北师大版选择性必修第四册

北师大版选择性必修四 Unit 11　Conflict and Compromise 单元写作作业（教师版） 一、单元写作任务 假定你是李华，你校英文报 "Opinion" 专栏正在讨论 "Is Compromise a Sign of Weakness?"。请你写一篇短文投稿，内容包括： 1. 你对"妥协"的基本看法； 2. 两条理由或一个例子来支撑你的看法； 3. 一句结论，说明什么时候不该妥协。 注意：1. 词数100左右；2. 可适当增加细节，以使行文连贯；3. 题目自拟。 二、审题建模（动笔前先想清楚这五件事） 项目 写作要点 体裁 英文报观点短文（opinion essay）：标题自拟，无称呼与落款；先立论，再论证，最后界定边界，属典型议论文。 人称 表达观点用 I，泛指人用 we / people，举例可用 I 或 they。 时态 陈述观点与普遍现象用一般现在时；举例叙事用一般过去时；虚拟或推测用 would / might。 结构 三段式。Para 1：亮明立场（一句判断，可用一个反例开头）；Para 2：两条理由（一条讲道理，一条举例）；Para 3：界定边界（什么时候不该妥协）+ 收束。 要点 三个要点缺一不可。立场要明确，不能“两面都对”；理由要分层次（个人／群体）；边界要具体（原则问题、安全底线），忌“具体问题具体分析”这种空话。 语气 理性、有锋芒但不激烈。多用让步（Admittedly...）与界定（Compromise is not...），体现思辨。 三、话题词块梳理 Ⅰ. 话题词汇（中英对照，答案已填入） 话题词汇 1. conflict n. 冲突；矛盾 2. compromise n. 妥协 3. negotiation n. 谈判；协商 4. negotiate vi. 谈判；协商 5. weakness n. 弱点；软弱 6. principle n. 原则 7. concession n. 让步 8. give in 屈服；让步 9. tension n. 紧张；张力 10. resolution n. 解决；决议 11. mutual adj. 相互的 12. flexible adj. 灵活的；变通的 13. stubborn adj. 固执的 14. give-and-take n. 互相让步 15. justice n. 公正；正义 16. consensus n. 共识 17. dialogue n. 对话 18. resolve vt. 解决（问题） 19. escalate vi. 升级；加剧 20. opinionated adj. 固执己见的 21. empathy n. 共情；同理心 22. stance n. 立场；位置 23. reasonable adj. 合理的 24. consequence n. 后果 Ⅱ. 话题词块（答案已填入） 话题词块 1. reach a compromise 达成妥协 2. meet each other halfway 各让一步 3. give in to 向……屈服 4. stand by one's principles 坚持原则 5. on principle 出于原则 6. get into conflict 陷入冲突 7. resolve a conflict 解决冲突 8. escalate a conflict 使冲突升级 9. sit down at the table 坐下来谈 10. see things from sb.'s side 从某人的角度看 11. lose sight of 忽视；忘记 12. a win-win outcome 双赢的结果 13. draw a line 划定界限 14. be firm on 在……问题上立场坚定 15. be open to 对……持开放态度 16. be non-negotiable 不可谈判的 17. at the cost of 以……为代价 18. reach a consensus 达成共识 19. in the long term 从长远看 20. give way to 让步于 21. hold one's ground 坚持立场 22. in a peaceful way 以和平方式 23. keep the peace 维持和平 24. set...aside 把……放在一边 25. work out a solution 找到解决办法 26. the point at issue 争论的焦点 27. be willing to 愿意 28. hear both sides 听取双方意见 29. take a step back 退一步看 30. settle a disagreement 解决分歧 Ⅲ. 词块升级（把左边的“基础表达”换成右边更高级的说法） 基础表达 升级表达 1. Compromise is not weak. Compromise is not the absence of a position; it is the proof that you have one and can still move. 2. We should talk to each other. Two people who will not sit down are not having an argument; they are having two monologues. 3. He refused to change his mind. He held his ground so hard that he lost the point he was holding it for. 4. I gave in. I gave in on the time, and kept the principle—which is what a bargain looks like. 5. Some things cannot be compromised. You cannot compromise on safety, because the cost is paid by someone who never agreed. 6. Conflict is common. Conflict is not a failure of friendship; it is the price of two people being real. 7. We need to understand each other. Understanding does not mean agreeing; it means knowing exactly what you are disagreeing with. 8. A good solution benefits both. A good solution leaves both sides slightly unsatisfied and still speaking. 四、教材好句精选（根据汉语补全句子，注意课文句式与词块的用法） 1. 很多人把妥协看作软弱的表现。 　　Many people see compromise as a sign of weakness. 2. 我认为恰恰相反：妥协往往需要更大的勇气。 　　I would argue the opposite: compromise often takes more courage. 3. 妥协不等于放弃原则。 　　Compromise is not the same as giving up your principles. 4. 真正的妥协，是双方都退一步。 　　Real compromise means both sides take a step back. 5. 拒绝谈话的人，其实是在重复自己的独白。 　　Those who refuse to talk are simply repeating their own monologue. 6. 有些底线不能让，比如安全与尊严。 　　Some lines cannot be crossed, such as safety and dignity. 7. 一个双方都不太满意的方案，往往是最可行的方案。 　　A solution that leaves both sides slightly unsatisfied is often the most workable one. 8. 只有先听完对方，才知道争的是什么。 　　Only after hearing the other side do we know what we are arguing about. 9. 冲突本身不是坏事，处理不当才是。 　　Conflict itself is not the problem; handling it badly is. 10. 退一步，不是认输，而是看清。 　　Taking a step back is not giving up but seeing clearly. 11. 我们需要的不是胜负，而是共识。 　　What we need is not a winner but a consensus. 12. 能谈的时候谈，不能谈的时候守住底线。 　　Negotiate while you can, and hold the line when you cannot. 五、句式升级与仿写（按要求改写下列句子，体会“高级感”从何而来） 1. Compromise is often misunderstood. It is actually a skill. 要求：用 过去分词作状语 + 表语从句改写 → Often misunderstood, compromise is in fact what very few people can practise well. 2. Both sides want different things. They can still find a solution. 要求：用 让步状语从句 + 定语从句改写 → Although the two sides want different things, there is usually a solution that neither of them hates. 3. He never compromised. He lost his friends. 要求：用 现在分词作结果状语改写 → He never compromised on anything, losing most of his friends in the end. 4. If you give in on everything, you stand for nothing. 要求：用 倒装虚拟条件句（Should...）改写 → Should you give in on everything, you would end up standing for nothing. 5. I learned to listen first. Then I learned to argue. 要求：用 only after 置于句首的倒装 → Only after I learned to listen did I learn how to argue well. 6. Some principles cannot be traded. Safety is one. 要求：用 强调句强调 some principles，并用同位语补充 → It is some principles that cannot be traded—safety and dignity among them. 7. The meeting was long. Nobody left. 要求：用 so...that... 改写，突出“谈”的价值 → The meeting was so long that dinner went cold, and nobody left, which is how a solution is born. 8. We disagree. We respect each other. 要求：用 what 主语从句改写 → What we disagree about is small; what we agree on is that the disagreement must stay civil. 9. A compromise is not a defeat. 要求：用 表语从句改写，避免简单判断句 → A compromise is not a defeat; the truth is that the relationship matters more than the score. 10. We must talk before the conflict grows. 要求：用 before 引导的时间状语从句 + 倒装强调紧迫性 → Only before a small disagreement becomes a family story nobody tells at dinner should we sit down and talk. 六、课外材料精编（读一读，背一背，用一用） Compromise is not the absence of a position but the proof that you can move it. 妥协不是没有立场，而是证明你的立场可以移动。　（not...but... 对照） A conflict is not a wall; it is a door that has not been opened yet. 冲突不是一堵墙，而是一扇还没打开的门。　（not...but... + 暗喻） So firmly did he hold his ground that he forgot why he was standing there. 他立场坚定到忘了自己为何站在那里。　（so...that 倒装 + 反讽） There is no agreement that survives without someone speaking first. 没有哪份共识能在无人先开口的情况下达成。　（there be + 定语从句） The people who compromise easily are often the ones who know what they will not compromise on. 轻易妥协的人，往往最清楚自己不会在什么上妥协。　（定语从句 + 宾语从句） Had we talked a week earlier, the argument would have lasted ten minutes. 若我们早一周谈，争吵十分钟就结束了。　（虚拟条件句倒装） Not until both sides stopped winning did the problem get solved. 直到双方都不再想着赢，问题才得以解决。　（not until 倒装） Every negotiation is a conversation about what each side can live without. 每场谈判，都是关于“各自能少了什么”的对话。　（表语从句 + 定语从句） Strength is not the refusal to move; it is knowing where to stand. 强大不是拒绝移动，而是知道该站在哪里。　（not...but... 对照） A peace that costs someone everything is not peace; it is a delay. 让某一方失去一切的和平不是和平，只是延期。　（not...but... + 定义） We spend years defending a position we chose in five minutes. 我们用很多年捍卫一个五分钟内选定的立场。　（定语从句 + 时间对比） Listening is the cheapest concession and the most expensive one to give. 倾听是最廉价的让步，也是最难做出的让步。　（对举 + 最高级） Two people can be right in different directions. 两个人可以在不同方向上都是对的。　（短句 + 抽象） In the end, compromise is how two truths learn to share a room. 说到底，妥协是两个真相学会共处一室的方式。　（表语从句 + 拟人） 七、同话题高考真题【改编自高考应用文真题·观点短文体裁，情境已替换】 你校英文报 "Opinion" 正在征集观点短文，本期话题是 "Should We Always Avoid Conflict?"。请你写一篇短文投稿，内容包括： 1. 你的观点； 2. 两条理由； 3. 一句结论。 注意：1. 词数100左右；2. 可以适当增加细节，以使行文连贯。本题沿用高考应用文中“校英文报观点类投稿”的体裁与格式要求，具体话题已替换，以便与本单元"Conflict and Compromise"对接。 【审题建模】 审体裁：观点短文——需自拟标题，无称呼与落款；立场—理由—结论，三段推进。 审人称：表达观点用 I，泛指用 we / people。 审时态：观点与普遍现象用一般现在时，举例可用一般过去时。 审内容：观点（冲突不必回避，回避只会延期）—理由（冲突暴露真问题；压抑的情绪会以更坏的方式回来）—结论（谈，而不是躲）。 审语气：理性、有分寸，用 Admittedly 让步，避免绝对化。 【参考范文】 Why We Should Stop Avoiding Arguments 　　Many of us were taught that a good friend never argues. I think that is bad advice. Avoiding conflict does not remove it; it only postpones it. 　　First, conflict shows where the real problem is. A disagreement about who washes the dishes is rarely about dishes; it is about being taken for granted. If nobody argues, nobody finds out. 　　Second, what is swallowed comes back louder. Two months of polite silence usually ends in one very impolite evening. 　　Admittedly, not every battle is worth fighting. But the choice is not between conflict and peace; it is between a conversation now and a crisis later. 【亮点句式】 ① I think that is bad advice.（五个词亮明立场，短句有力） ② Avoiding conflict does not remove it; it only postpones it.（分号对举，一句把论点说透） ③ it is about being taken for granted（从“洗碗”挖到“被忽视”，体现分析深度） ④ the choice is not between conflict and peace; it is between a conversation now and a crisis later.（双重 not...but 对照，结尾格言化但不空） 八、范文赏析 【参考范文】 The Strength of Stepping Back 　　Many people see compromise as weakness: the one who gives in, they say, has lost. I would argue the opposite. 　　Compromise is not the absence of a position; it is the proof that you have one and can still move. When two roommates argue about noise, the one who agrees to headphones after ten has not surrendered—he has decided that the friendship is worth more than the argument. 　　It also produces better answers. A solution that leaves both sides slightly unsatisfied is usually more workable than one that leaves one side triumphant, because the losing side will find a way to reopen the question. 　　But compromise has a boundary. You cannot compromise on safety or dignity, because the cost would be paid by someone who never agreed. Knowing where that line is—that is strength. 【学生习作】 　　Now many people think compromise is weak. I do not think so. 　　First, if we do not compromise, we will have many problems with our friends. We will be angry and we will not talk. This is not good. Second, compromise can make both people happy. For example, my deskmate and I both want to open the window. We open it for ten minutes and then close it. We are both happy. 　　But I also think we should not compromise on everything. Some things are important. We should be brave. 　　In a word, compromise is good, but we should know when to stop. 【习作点评】 优点：立场明确，有两条理由，还举了“开窗十分钟”的例子，具体可信；最后一段承认“不能什么都妥协”，有思辨意识，结构完整。 问题一：论证停在“会有问题”“会开心”这样的结果上，没有追问原因。应补一句“为什么”，如 “an argument avoided today becomes a silence that lasts a month”。 问题二：例子很好但缺少分析。开窗十分钟之后呢？应加一句“我们都得到了空气，也都失去了争论的理由”，例子才发光。 问题三：句式单一，八句中有六句是“主语 + 动词 + 宾语”，且多次用 good / happy。可用从句或非谓语改写：“Compromising on the window, we kept both the air and the friendship.” 问题四：结尾“know when to stop”太含糊。应把界线说清：“We cannot compromise on safety or dignity.” 【评分标准】（满分15分，按高考应用文评分细则） 档次 分数 评分描述 第五档 13—15分 覆盖全部要点，应用了较多语法结构和词汇，句式有变化，衔接自然，语法和拼写错误极少，完全达到交际目的。 第四档 10—12分 覆盖全部要点，语法结构和词汇能满足任务要求，衔接基本连贯，有少量错误但不影响理解。 第三档 7—9分 基本覆盖要点，语法结构单调，词汇有限，有一些错误，部分内容表达不清。 第二档 4—6分 遗漏较多要点，语法结构单调、词汇项目有限，错误较多，影响理解。 第一档 1—3分 只能写出个别单词，内容太少，无法传达信息。 【写作指导：本单元写作的三个得分点】 得分点一：先立“反例”再亮观点。Many people see compromise as weakness... I would argue the opposite——两句话就把辩论场搭起来，比平铺直叙有力。 得分点二：把例子挖深一层。洗盘子不是洗盘子，是“被当成理所当然”；能挖到这一层，文章就有了思想。 得分点三：给论点划一条边界。You cannot compromise on safety or dignity——承认例外，反而让你的立场更可信。 学科网（北京）股份有限公司 $ 北师大版选择性必修四 Unit 11　Conflict and Compromise 单元写作作业 一、单元写作任务 假定你是李华，你校英文报 "Opinion" 专栏正在讨论 "Is Compromise a Sign of Weakness?"。请你写一篇短文投稿，内容包括： 1. 你对"妥协"的基本看法； 2. 两条理由或一个例子来支撑你的看法； 3. 一句结论，说明什么时候不该妥协。 注意：1. 词数100左右；2. 可适当增加细节，以使行文连贯；3. 题目自拟。 二、审题建模（动笔前先想清楚这五件事） 项目 写作要点 体裁 英文报观点短文（opinion essay）：标题自拟，无称呼与落款；先立论，再论证，最后界定边界，属典型议论文。 人称 表达观点用 I，泛指人用 we / people，举例可用 I 或 they。 时态 陈述观点与普遍现象用一般现在时；举例叙事用一般过去时；虚拟或推测用 would / might。 结构 三段式。Para 1：亮明立场（一句判断，可用一个反例开头）；Para 2：两条理由（一条讲道理，一条举例）；Para 3：界定边界（什么时候不该妥协）+ 收束。 要点 三个要点缺一不可。立场要明确，不能“两面都对”；理由要分层次（个人／群体）；边界要具体（原则问题、安全底线），忌“具体问题具体分析”这种空话。 语气 理性、有锋芒但不激烈。多用让步（Admittedly...）与界定（Compromise is not...），体现思辨。 三、话题词块梳理 Ⅰ. 话题词汇（根据提示补全单词或词义） 话题词汇 1. conflict n. ____________ 2. ____________ n. 妥协 3. negotiation n. ____________ 4. ____________ vi. 谈判；协商 5. weakness n. ____________ 6. ____________ n. 原则 7. concession n. ____________ 8. ____________ vi. 屈服；让步 9. tension n. ____________ 10. ____________ n. 解决；决议 11. mutual adj. ____________ 12. ____________ adj. 灵活的；变通的 13. stubborn adj. ____________ 14. ____________ n. 让步；妥协 15. justice n. ____________ 16. ____________ n. 共识 17. dialogue n. ____________ 18. ____________ vt. 解决（问题） 19. escalate vi. ____________ 20. ____________ adj. 固执己见的 21. empathy n. ____________ 22. ____________ n. 立场；位置 23. reasonable adj. ____________ 24. ____________ n. 后果 Ⅱ. 话题词块（根据汉语补全短语，或根据短语写出汉语） 话题词块 1. reach a compromise ____________ 2. ____________ 各让一步 3. give in to ____________ 4. ____________ 坚持原则 5. on principle ____________ 6. ____________ 陷入冲突 7. resolve a conflict ____________ 8. ____________ 使冲突升级 9. sit down at the table ____________ 10. ____________ 从某人的角度看 11. lose sight of ____________ 12. ____________ 双赢的结果 13. draw a line ____________ 14. ____________ 在……问题上立场坚定 15. be open to ____________ 16. ____________ 不可谈判的 17. at the cost of ____________ 18. ____________ 达成共识 19. in the long term ____________ 20. ____________ 让步于 21. hold one's ground ____________ 22. ____________ 以和平方式 23. keep the peace ____________ 24. ____________ 把……放在一边 25. work out a solution ____________ 26. ____________ 争论的焦点 27. be willing to ____________ 28. ____________ 听取双方意见 29. take a step back ____________ 30. ____________ 解决分歧 Ⅲ. 词块升级（把左边的“基础表达”换成右边更高级的说法） 基础表达 升级表达 1. Compromise is not weak. ____________________ 2. We should talk to each other. ____________________ 3. He refused to change his mind. ____________________ 4. I gave in. ____________________ 5. Some things cannot be compromised. ____________________ 6. Conflict is common. ____________________ 7. We need to understand each other. ____________________ 8. A good solution benefits both. ____________________ 四、教材好句精选（根据汉语补全句子，注意课文句式与词块的用法） 1. 很多人把妥协看作软弱的表现。 　　Many people ____________ compromise ____________ a sign of weakness. 2. 我认为恰恰相反：妥协往往需要更大的勇气。 　　I would argue the ____________: compromise often takes more ____________. 3. 妥协不等于放弃原则。 　　Compromise is not the same as ____________ your ____________. 4. 真正的妥协，是双方都退一步。 　　Real compromise means both sides ____________ a step ____________. 5. 拒绝谈话的人，其实是在重复自己的独白。 　　Those who ____________ to talk are simply repeating their own ____________. 6. 有些底线不能让，比如安全与尊严。 　　Some lines cannot be ____________, such as safety and ____________. 7. 一个双方都不太满意的方案，往往是最可行的方案。 　　A solution that leaves both sides slightly ____________ is often the most ____________ one. 8. 只有先听完对方，才知道争的是什么。 　　Only after hearing the other side do we know what we are ____________ ____________. 9. 冲突本身不是坏事，处理不当才是。 　　Conflict itself is not the ____________; handling it badly ____________. 10. 退一步，不是认输，而是看清。 　　Taking a step back is not ____________ up but seeing ____________. 11. 我们需要的不是胜负，而是共识。 　　What we need is not a ____________ but a ____________. 12. 能谈的时候谈，不能谈的时候守住底线。 　　Negotiate while you ____________, and hold the line when you ____________. 五、句式升级与仿写（按要求改写下列句子，体会“高级感”从何而来） 1. Compromise is often misunderstood. It is actually a skill. 要求：用 过去分词作状语 + 表语从句改写 → ____________________________________________________________ 2. Both sides want different things. They can still find a solution. 要求：用 让步状语从句 + 定语从句改写 → ____________________________________________________________ 3. He never compromised. He lost his friends. 要求：用 现在分词作结果状语改写 → ____________________________________________________________ 4. If you give in on everything, you stand for nothing. 要求：用 倒装虚拟条件句（Should...）改写 → ____________________________________________________________ 5. I learned to listen first. Then I learned to argue. 要求：用 only after 置于句首的倒装 → ____________________________________________________________ 6. Some principles cannot be traded. Safety is one. 要求：用 强调句强调 some principles，并用同位语补充 → ____________________________________________________________ 7. The meeting was long. Nobody left. 要求：用 so...that... 改写，突出“谈”的价值 → ____________________________________________________________ 8. We disagree. We respect each other. 要求：用 what 主语从句改写 → ____________________________________________________________ 9. A compromise is not a defeat. 要求：用 表语从句改写，避免简单判断句 → ____________________________________________________________ 10. We must talk before the conflict grows. 要求：用 before 引导的时间状语从句 + 倒装强调紧迫性 → ____________________________________________________________ 六、课外材料精编（读一读，背一背，用一用） Compromise is not the absence of a position but the proof that you can move it. 妥协不是没有立场，而是证明你的立场可以移动。　（not...but... 对照） A conflict is not a wall; it is a door that has not been opened yet. 冲突不是一堵墙，而是一扇还没打开的门。　（not...but... + 暗喻） So firmly did he hold his ground that he forgot why he was standing there. 他立场坚定到忘了自己为何站在那里。　（so...that 倒装 + 反讽） There is no agreement that survives without someone speaking first. 没有哪份共识能在无人先开口的情况下达成。　（there be + 定语从句） The people who compromise easily are often the ones who know what they will not compromise on. 轻易妥协的人，往往最清楚自己不会在什么上妥协。　（定语从句 + 宾语从句） Had we talked a week earlier, the argument would have lasted ten minutes. 若我们早一周谈，争吵十分钟就结束了。　（虚拟条件句倒装） Not until both sides stopped winning did the problem get solved. 直到双方都不再想着赢，问题才得以解决。　（not until 倒装） Every negotiation is a conversation about what each side can live without. 每场谈判，都是关于“各自能少了什么”的对话。　（表语从句 + 定语从句） Strength is not the refusal to move; it is knowing where to stand. 强大不是拒绝移动，而是知道该站在哪里。　（not...but... 对照） A peace that costs someone everything is not peace; it is a delay. 让某一方失去一切的和平不是和平，只是延期。　（not...but... + 定义） We spend years defending a position we chose in five minutes. 我们用很多年捍卫一个五分钟内选定的立场。　（定语从句 + 时间对比） Listening is the cheapest concession and the most expensive one to give. 倾听是最廉价的让步，也是最难做出的让步。　（对举 + 最高级） Two people can be right in different directions. 两个人可以在不同方向上都是对的。　（短句 + 抽象） In the end, compromise is how two truths learn to share a room. 说到底，妥协是两个真相学会共处一室的方式。　（表语从句 + 拟人） 七、同话题高考真题【改编自高考应用文真题·观点短文体裁，情境已替换】 你校英文报 "Opinion" 正在征集观点短文，本期话题是 "Should We Always Avoid Conflict?"。请你写一篇短文投稿，内容包括： 1. 你的观点； 2. 两条理由； 3. 一句结论。 注意：1. 词数100左右；2. 可以适当增加细节，以使行文连贯。本题沿用高考应用文中“校英文报观点类投稿”的体裁与格式要求，具体话题已替换，以便与本单元"Conflict and Compromise"对接。 八、范文赏析 【参考范文】 The Strength of Stepping Back 　　Many people see compromise as weakness: the one who gives in, they say, has lost. I would argue the opposite. 　　Compromise is not the absence of a position; it is the proof that you have one and can still move. When two roommates argue about noise, the one who agrees to headphones after ten has not surrendered—he has decided that the friendship is worth more than the argument. 　　It also produces better answers. A solution that leaves both sides slightly unsatisfied is usually more workable than one that leaves one side triumphant, because the losing side will find a way to reopen the question. 　　But compromise has a boundary. You cannot compromise on safety or dignity, because the cost would be paid by someone who never agreed. Knowing where that line is—that is strength. 【学生习作】 　　Now many people think compromise is weak. I do not think so. 　　First, if we do not compromise, we will have many problems with our friends. We will be angry and we will not talk. This is not good. Second, compromise can make both people happy. For example, my deskmate and I both want to open the window. We open it for ten minutes and then close it. We are both happy. 　　But I also think we should not compromise on everything. Some things are important. We should be brave. 　　In a word, compromise is good, but we should know when to stop. 【自我修改清单】（写完对照检查） □ 标题是否自拟，并且能看出你的立场（不是中立）？ □ 第一段是否用一句话亮明观点，最好先立一个“反例”？ □ 两条理由是否分层次（一条讲道理，一条举例），而不是重复同一个意思？ □ 例子之后是否有一句分析，而不只是叙述？ □ 是否界定了“什么时候不该妥协”，把话说完整？ □ 是否用了 Admittedly / However 之类的让步与转折，体现思辨？ 九、参考答案 三、话题词块梳理 Ⅰ. 话题词汇 1. conflict n. 冲突；矛盾 2. compromise n. 妥协 3. negotiation n. 谈判；协商 4. negotiate vi. 谈判；协商 5. weakness n. 弱点；软弱 6. principle n. 原则 7. concession n. 让步 8. give in 屈服；让步 9. tension n. 紧张；张力 10. resolution n. 解决；决议 11. mutual adj. 相互的 12. flexible adj. 灵活的；变通的 13. stubborn adj. 固执的 14. give-and-take n. 互相让步 15. justice n. 公正；正义 16. consensus n. 共识 17. dialogue n. 对话 18. resolve vt. 解决（问题） 19. escalate vi. 升级；加剧 20. opinionated adj. 固执己见的 21. empathy n. 共情；同理心 22. stance n. 立场；位置 23. reasonable adj. 合理的 24. consequence n. 后果 Ⅱ. 话题词块 1. reach a compromise 达成妥协 2. meet each other halfway 各让一步 3. give in to 向……屈服 4. stand by one's principles 坚持原则 5. on principle 出于原则 6. get into conflict 陷入冲突 7. resolve a conflict 解决冲突 8. escalate a conflict 使冲突升级 9. sit down at the table 坐下来谈 10. see things from sb.'s side 从某人的角度看 11. lose sight of 忽视；忘记 12. a win-win outcome 双赢的结果 13. draw a line 划定界限 14. be firm on 在……问题上立场坚定 15. be open to 对……持开放态度 16. be non-negotiable 不可谈判的 17. at the cost of 以……为代价 18. reach a consensus 达成共识 19. in the long term 从长远看 20. give way to 让步于 21. hold one's ground 坚持立场 22. in a peaceful way 以和平方式 23. keep the peace 维持和平 24. set...aside 把……放在一边 25. work out a solution 找到解决办法 26. the point at issue 争论的焦点 27. be willing to 愿意 28. hear both sides 听取双方意见 29. take a step back 退一步看 30. settle a disagreement 解决分歧 Ⅲ. 词块升级 1. Compromise is not the absence of a position; it is the proof that you have one and can still move. 2. Two people who will not sit down are not having an argument; they are having two monologues. 3. He held his ground so hard that he lost the point he was holding it for. 4. I gave in on the time, and kept the principle—which is what a bargain looks like. 5. You cannot compromise on safety, because the cost is paid by someone who never agreed. 6. Conflict is not a failure of friendship; it is the price of two people being real. 7. Understanding does not mean agreeing; it means knowing exactly what you are disagreeing with. 8. A good solution leaves both sides slightly unsatisfied and still speaking. 四、教材好句精选 1. Many people see compromise as a sign of weakness. 2. I would argue the opposite: compromise often takes more courage. 3. Compromise is not the same as giving up your principles. 4. Real compromise means both sides take a step back. 5. Those who refuse to talk are simply repeating their own monologue. 6. Some lines cannot be crossed, such as safety and dignity. 7. A solution that leaves both sides slightly unsatisfied is often the most workable one. 8. Only after hearing the other side do we know what we are arguing about. 9. Conflict itself is not the problem; handling it badly is. 10. Taking a step back is not giving up but seeing clearly. 11. What we need is not a winner but a consensus. 12. Negotiate while you can, and hold the line when you cannot. 五、句式升级与仿写 1. Often misunderstood, compromise is in fact what very few people can practise well. 2. Although the two sides want different things, there is usually a solution that neither of them hates. 3. He never compromised on anything, losing most of his friends in the end. 4. Should you give in on everything, you would end up standing for nothing. 5. Only after I learned to listen did I learn how to argue well. 6. It is some principles that cannot be traded—safety and dignity among them. 7. The meeting was so long that dinner went cold, and nobody left, which is how a solution is born. 8. What we disagree about is small; what we agree on is that the disagreement must stay civil. 9. A compromise is not a defeat; the truth is that the relationship matters more than the score. 10. Only before a small disagreement becomes a family story nobody tells at dinner should we sit down and talk. 七、同话题高考真题【改编自高考应用文真题·观点短文体裁，情境已替换】 审体裁：观点短文——需自拟标题，无称呼与落款；立场—理由—结论，三段推进。 审人称：表达观点用 I，泛指用 we / people。 审时态：观点与普遍现象用一般现在时，举例可用一般过去时。 审内容：观点（冲突不必回避，回避只会延期）—理由（冲突暴露真问题；压抑的情绪会以更坏的方式回来）—结论（谈，而不是躲）。 审语气：理性、有分寸，用 Admittedly 让步，避免绝对化。 【参考范文】 Why We Should Stop Avoiding Arguments 　　Many of us were taught that a good friend never argues. I think that is bad advice. Avoiding conflict does not remove it; it only postpones it. 　　First, conflict shows where the real problem is. A disagreement about who washes the dishes is rarely about dishes; it is about being taken for granted. If nobody argues, nobody finds out. 　　Second, what is swallowed comes back louder. Two months of polite silence usually ends in one very impolite evening. 　　Admittedly, not every battle is worth fighting. But the choice is not between conflict and peace; it is between a conversation now and a crisis later. 学科网（北京）股份有限公司 $