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What To Do When You’re Jealous Of Your BFF’s Grades
当你忌妒你死党的成绩时该怎么办?
You’ve just received your final grades and, well, they’re not exactly what you were hoping for. The results are way lower than you expected, and you can’t help but feel as though all your hard work has been for nothing. You don’t think things could get any worse. Until you find out that your BFF has totally smashed (粉碎) it. Suddenly, all those feelings of disappointment turn into jealousy (忌妒).
Sound familiar? Don’t worry, you’re not alone. We’ve all been there before.
If your BFF’s grades have got you green with envy, then try not to panic. We’ve put together some tips to help you cope (应付).
你刚刚收到你的期末成绩,然而它们跟你预想的完全不一样。结果比你预期的要低很多,你不禁觉得你所有的努力都白费了。你觉得事情应该不会更糟了吧。直到你发现,你的死党完全粉碎了你的幻想。突然间,所有这些失望的感觉变成了忌妒。
这种情况听起来很熟悉?别担心,你并不孤单。我们以前都经历过这种情况。
如果你死党的成绩让你忌妒,那么尽量不要慌张。我们汇总了一些建议,以帮助你应对这种情况。
way adv 非常;极其
sb can not help but do sth 某人忍不住做某事
for nothing毫无结果;白白地
have been there before 亲身经历过
green with envy 忌妒的;眼红的
Be Happy For Them
First things first, make sure you start things off right by congratulating them for doing well this semester (学期). We’re not going to lie. This can be hard when you’re overwhelmed with jealousy, but your BFF has worked for it and they deserve to be celebrated.
Don’t hate them for their achievements.
If only for a moment, push your jealousy aside. By allowing yourself to feel genuinely happy for your friend, you’ll be able to rewire your brain and avoid getting stuck in a jealous thought-spiral (思维漩涡).
Just ask what kind of friend you want to be — one who is proud of their bestie’s achievements or one who lets jealousy get in the way?
为他们感到高兴
你要做的第一件事就是祝贺他们这学期取得了好成绩。我们不是撒谎,当你妒火中烧时,这可能很难,但你的死党已经为之努力,值得进行庆祝。不要因为他们的成就恨他们。
哪怕只有一瞬间,也要把你的忌妒推到一边。真正为你的朋友感到高兴,这样你还能够重塑大脑,避免陷入忌妒的思维漩涡。
问问自己,你想成为什么样的朋友——一个为自己朋友的成就感到骄傲的人,还是一个让忌妒心占上风的人?
first things first要事先办
start sth off by doing sth以做某事开始……
be overwhelmed with jealousy 妒火中烧
deserve to be done应受;值得
push sth aside 不考虑;不去想
genuinely /ˈdʒenjuɪnli/ adv