Unit 11 Period Ⅰ TOPIC TALK & LESSON 1（课件）-【优化探究】2022-2023学年新教材高中英语选择性必修第四册同步导学案（北师大版2019）

返回导航 下页 上页 北师英语 选择性必修第四册 冲突是生活和友谊中常见的问题。如何解决冲突呢？这里有一些解决方法。 返回导航 下页 上页 北师英语 选择性必修第四册 Resolving Conflict in Friendships Conflict is surely a common problem in life and friendships.Many shallow friendships end up being ruined after an argument. That's because there isn't enough depth to guarantee all the trouble it takes to smooth over the disagreement. Unfortunately, even when the friendship reaches a deeper level, conflict continues to happen and can break apart a relationship. Here are some resolutions. 返回导航 下页 上页 北师英语 选择性必修第四册 Resolve it the day it happens. One rule my parents follow in their marriage is that they don't go to bed angry with each other. They always attempt to resolve things the day it happens so that in the morning, it's a fresh start with no past grudge. I've found I need a short cool down period so that I don't act in anger.For some, counting to one hundred before saying anything may be an option.Whatever you do, don't let things ride for too long. 返回导航 下页 上页 北师英语 选择性必修第四册 Try to see the other person's perspective.Sometimes if you sit down and talk things over, you begin to see where the other person is coming from. Realize that everyone has been created differently with various talents, abilities, and personality traits. For example, you might be a leader while your friend is more of a follower. You may be frustrated with him or her for not being very decisive. Yet it is important to understand that each person is unique and needs to be appreciated. 返回导航 下页 上页 北师英语 选择性必修第四册 Initiate resolution.Be the first person in a fight to say sorry for your part.Even when you think the other person is wrong，it's not a bad thing to say “I'm sorry if I offended you in that way.” If you're honest and genuine in delivering your words, there's a good chance your friend will respond positively. 返回导航 下页 上页 北师英语 选择性必修第四册 Most importantly, be loving in what you do. Try to focus on peacefully resolving the disagreement. It is not a most pleasant task to resolv