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想交朋友要多说“我们”
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We all know that friends are special people who we share our lives with, and who share their lives with us in return. But seeking friends and keeping the friendship going are never easy.
我们都认为,朋友是彼此之间分享生活的特别之人。但交朋友并维持友谊从来都不是易事。
in return
作为回报;作为报答
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According to research recently published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, the key is to use “we-talk”.
《社会与人际关系期刊》近期发布的研究认为,(维系友谊的)关键在于“we-talk”(在交流中使用“我们”一词)。
personal relationships
人际关系
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Led by University of California psychologist Megan Robbins and her colleagues, the researchers reviewed and analyzed 30 different studies involving over 5,000 participants. This largest-ever analysis of “we-talk” suggested that the frequent use of “we” and “us” is linked to happier and healthier relationships.
加州大学心理学家梅根·罗宾斯及其同事带领研究人员,评估并分析了由5 000多人参与的30项不同的研究。这也是目前为止关于“we-talk” 最大规模的分析研究。研究表明,频繁使用“we”或者“us”等词与更开心、更健康的人际关系密切相关。
review [rɪ'vjuː]
vt. 回顾;评估;检查
involve [ɪn'vɒlv]
vt. 包含;牵涉
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The word “we” moves people from a