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牛津译林版高中英语必修一课件
Unit 2 Let’s talk teens
Integrated skills Page 22-24
Giving advice on parent-child relationships
制作者:桂东一中 李宇平
◆ 内容分析
本板块围绕单元话题,以“化解亲子矛盾”创设情境,开展读、听、说、写一系列技能训练活动,注重活动间的综合性、关联性和实践性。获取邮件文体特征的知识,针对话题开展讨论,最后给目标读者写一封邮件帮助他们解决问题。
◆ 教学目标
By the end of this section, we will be able to:
1. identify the problems they have with their parents and seek solutions;
2. analyse and summarize the features of a formal advice email;
3. write a formal advice email to help solve their problems.
A. Some teenagers write to Cynthia[ /ˈsɪnθiə/辛西娅(女子名)], the host of a radio programme called Teen Time,about their problems with their parents. Read the parts of their emails below and describe each problem in one sentence.
Steps for summarizing
Step 1: Read the paragraph once without highlighting or circling any of its text. This will give you a general idea of the subject and the author’s purpose without getting too caught up in (被卷入;陷入) details and descriptions. Pay attention to the author’s purpose for writing the paragraph.
Step 2: Re-read the paragraph while looking for key words and phrases, usually the words or phrases the author repeats.
Step 3: Underline the paragraph’s first sentence, which often contains the paragraph’s main idea.
Step 4: Write one sentence in your words, by connecting the key words you have circled. Avoid adding information or opinions that are not in the original paragraph.
Rebecca’s problem:
She wants her mother to pay less attention to her grades.
Simon’s problem:
He feels lonely because his parents do not spend much time with him.
Laura’s problem:
Her parents protect her too much.
My mum keeps a notebook of my grades in every exam. She asks my teachers how I’m doing at school whenever she can. It seems as if my grades are the most important thing in her life. When we’re at home, she keeps pressing me to study all the time. I do as she says, but she is never happy with my grades. Why can’t she leave me alone(不管; 不打扰)? I want to take a break once in a while. I want to listen to music or go out with my friends. Is that too much to ask for?
—Rebecca/rɪˈbekə/丽贝卡(女子名)
I’m eager for my parents’ love. They’re always busy at work. I hardly ever see them during the week because they don’t get home until late at night. I tell them that I’m stressed (焦虑不安;心力交瘁) about schoolwork, but neither of them show any concern. Sometimes I feel quite lonely at home. When was the last time we had a family outing at the weekend? When was the last time we had a long talk? How can parents not care about(关心;关怀 ) their children?
—Simon/ˈsaɪmən/西蒙(男子名)
Everyone says that youth is a time for adventure, but my parents disagree. I spend most of my spare time at home, because they hardly ever let me go out with my friends. When I do go out, they always ask, “Where are you going?” “Who are you going with?” “What are you going to do?” “When will you be back?” They’re always on my back about something.
be on sb's back about sth.缠磨;烦扰,不停地唠叨、催促、数落某人(反复为某事指责/念叨对方)
I understand that they’re trying to protect me from getting hurt. However, just as a baby kangaroo must learn to protect itself when it leaves its mother’s pocket,I will have to learn to protect myself when I grow up. I wish
they could be more flexible so that I can make my own choices about what to do in my spare time.
—Laura/ˈlɔːrə/劳拉(女子名)
so that 为了 (用以说明理由);因此
B.Cynthia is replying to Rebecca’s email on the radio programme. Listen and finish the exercises below. Page 23
B0. Choose the best answer according to the radio programme.
1. Why does Rebecca feel upset with her mother?
A. Her mom pays no attention to her hard work on study.
B. Her mom forbids her to listen to music at home.
C. Her mom refuses to allow her to hang out (闲逛) with friends.
2. What does Cynthia suggest Rebecca do when communicating with her mom?
A. Give up her hobbies to satisfy her mother.
B. Reach an agreement acceptable to both sides.
C. Argue with her mother to get more spare time.
3. What is the main idea of the speech?
A. Cynthia shares her own teenage experience with Rebecca.
B. Cynthia offers practical advice to fix Rebecca’s mom-daughter conflict.
C. Cynthia explains why parents hold high expectations for kids.
1. Why does Rebecca feel upset with her mother?
A. Her mom pays no attention to her hard work on study.
B. Her mom forbids her to listen to music at home.
C. Her mom refuses to allow her to hang out with friends.
细节题:原文 “If your mother doesn’t value that (your effort into schoolwork), of course you’re going to be unhappy”对应 A;B、C只是文中举例,并非烦恼根源。
2. What does Cynthia suggest Rebecca do when communicating with her mom?
A. Give up her hobbies to satisfy her mother.
B. Reach an agreement acceptable to both sides.
C. Argue with her mother to get more spare time.
推理题:文中“make a deal that you are both satisfied with”对应双方达成共识,选 B。
3. What is the main idea of the speech?
A. Cynthia shares her own teenage experience with Rebecca.
B. Cynthia offers practical advice to fix Rebecca’s mom-daughter conflict.
C. Cynthia explains why parents hold high expectations for kids.
主旨题:全篇围绕给Rebecca提建议、缓解母女矛盾展开,核心是提供解决亲子矛盾的办法。
B1. Listen to Cynthia’s reply again and circle the correct words to complete the sentences below.
1. According to Cynthia, Rebecca feels unhappy because her mother does not understand her/ value her effort.
2. Cynthia thinks that every parent has too much control over/ high hopes for their children.
3. According to Cynthia, school and friendship/ relaxation are both important.
4. Cynthia says Rebecca should be patient/calm enough to understand what her mother does.
5 Cynthia describes her senior high school life as exciting/ tiring.
B2. Listen to Cynthia’s reply again and complete the notes below.
Advice for Rebecca
• (1) ______ your mother. Make sure she understands
(2) ____________.
Remember to choose (3) ___________ and start the conversation politely.
Example: “I know that you expect me to (4) _______________,
but I’m struggling sometimes. Can we please talk?”
Talk to
your feelings
a good time
do well at school
Try to (5) _________________. Let your mother know about (6) ____________ and ask for more free time.
Example: Try to make a deal (达成协议) with your mother by explaining why you (7) ___________ and how it helps you.
• (8) ___________ in your mother’s shoes (设身处地为他人着想) and try to understand what she does.
Example: When your mother doesn’t let you
(9) _____________________, think about why she does so.
meet in the middle
your interests
enjoy music
Put yourself
go out with your friends
meet sb. in the middle/halfway各退一步,达成双方都能接受的妥协
Tapescript
Cynthia: Hi, Rebecca. This is Cynthia.
I understand your feelings. From your email, it sounds like you put a lot of effort into your schoolwork. If your mother doesn’t value(重视;珍视) that, of course you’re
going to be unhappy!
But remember: every parent has high hopes for (对...寄予厚望) their children. Your mother wants you to be successful but she probably fails to see how you struggle. Try following these pieces of advice and see if they help improve your relationship.
First, talk to your mother. Make sure she understands your feelings. Choose a good time and start the conversation politely. You can begin with something like,
“I know that you expect me to do well at school, but I’m struggling sometimes.Can we please talk?” You should also try to meet in the middle when talking to your mother. Of course, school matters, but relaxation( /ˌriːlækˈseɪʃn/
放松;休息;消遣;用于放松消遣的时间) is good for you too. Tell your mother about your interests and ask for [恳求(给予)] more free time to spend on them.
For example, if you like listening to music, explain why you enjoy it and how it helps you. Why don’t you make a deal that you are both satisfied with?
Second, put yourself in your mother’s shoes and try to understand what she does. I know it isn’t easy, but you must be patient. When your mother doesn’t let you go out with your friends, think about the reason why she does so.
When I was your age, I thought senior high school was tiring too. I couldn’t understand why my parents were so strict with me.
However, when I grew up,I realized that they just wanted me to have the best possible future. After that, I became so much closer(亲密的;密切的 ) to my mum and dad.
Everything will turn out all right, I promise.
C. In pairs, role-play (角色扮演) a conversation between Simon/Laura and Cynthia. Try to ask for and give advice. Use the following ideas and expressions to help you. Page 24
•Problem Simon/Laura has
• Advice Cynthia gives
Expressions: Asking for and giving advice
•What would you say when asking for advice?
What shall I do?
What do you think I should do?
Do you think that I should ...?
Do you have any ideas/suggestions on ....?
I am asking for some advice/ guidance on ...
I have some problems at home that ...
How can/should I ...?
Should I ...?
•What expressions can we use when giving advice?
I suggest that you (should) ...
I think/feel you can try ...
It might be a good idea to ...
How about/What about ...?
I think you should/could/need to/must …
You'd better …
You are supposed to …
It is good/useful for you to …
Why don't you …? = Why not …?
If I were you, I would …
Possible answer
Laura: Cynthia, my parents always want to know what I’m doing and where I am every minute of the day(时时刻刻). It’s really upsetting[令人不快(或忧虑、苦恼)的 ] because I want more freedom. What do you think I should do?
Cynthia: Laura, I understand that you’re unhappy. It’s normal for someone your age to feel that way. But it’s parents’ job to protect their child from harm. I think you can try looking at things from their point of view.
Laura: I see. Do you think that I should let them know I understand they love me, but that there are side effects [意外的连带后果,(药物的)副作用] of their overprotectiveness?
Cynthia: Yes, I think so. I suggest that you show your parents how responsible you can be. Tell them not to worry about you when you’re out with your friends. It might be a good idea for you and your parents to agree on when you should be home when you do go out.
Laura: OK, I’ll do that. Do you have any other suggestions?
Cynthia: I do! You should also assure(使确信;向…保证 ) them that you’ll let them know when you need their help.
Laura: Thanks Cynthia. I’ll let you know how it goes[(事情)进展,进行]!
D. Write a reply to Simon’s or Laura’s email. Use your ideas from part C and the information in parts A and B to help you. Page 24
Planning your writing
•Learning about the text type
A letter of advice is written to someone who has a problem and does not know how to solve it. In a letter of advice, you try to help solve the problem by offering
useful advice.
•Learning about the structure
When you write a letter of advice, you can follow the structure below:
Start by showing your understanding.
Offer several pieces of advice to help solve the problem. You can include personal experiences or stories about someone who has had a similar problem.
End the letter with a positive message. It is a good idea to try to cheer up the person you are writing to.
•Learning about the language
The following expressions might be helpful when you write a letter of advice:
I understand your feelings.
Try these pieces of advice and see if they help.
I hope ... I wish you all the best.
Checking your writing
Remember to check your writing after you finish and exchange drafts (草稿) between you and your partner. Pay attention to the following aspects:
Punctuation Spelling Grammar
Choice of words Style (formal/informal) Structure
Self-review
•Do the examples support the advice you give?
•What is the sentence you are most satisfied with?
Peer review
•What does your partner think of the advice and examples you give?
•How can you improve your writing?
一、写作思路分析
文体:给Laura的建议信(高考英语高频应用文)
词数:120词左右,三段式标准结构
1. 开头:共情安慰,表明已知晓她和父母的矛盾,理解她的苦恼
2. 主体:给出两条实用建议
① 耐心沟通:挑选合适时机,真诚说出自己的想法,主动和父母折中让步(meet in the middle)
② 换位思考:理解父母管控源于保护欲,主动报备行程消除他们的担忧
3. 结尾:表达美好祝愿,相信矛盾能够化解
核心考点短语:be on one’s back, meet in the middle, make one’s own choices
二、范文(简单词汇+高级句型)
Dear Laura,
I’m sorry to know you are trapped in a conflict with your parents. I totally understand your desire to hang out with friends and make your own decisions in your spare time. Here are my practical suggestions for you.
First, have a calm talk with your parents. Politely tell them you know they aim to keep you safe, but teenagers need chances to grow independently. Try to meet in the
middle, such as promising to return home early when going out. Besides, take their feelings into consideration. Their endless questions and constant blame come from deep love rather than control.
I’m convinced that proper communication will bridge the gap between you and your parents. Wish you a better relationship soon.
Yours,
Li Hua
三、亲子矛盾类建议信通用三段模板
Dear ______,
I’m sorry to hear that you have trouble getting along with your parents. I fully understand your feelings and here are some useful tips for you.
To begin with, it’s wise to communicate with them patiently. You can express your real thoughts gently and try to meet in the middle to reach an agreement. In addition, put yourself in their shoes. All their strict rules are just out of love and they worry about your safety all the time.
I firmly believe that as long as you treat them with sincerity, your parent-child relationship will be greatly improved.
Yours,
Li Hua
四、给Rebecca的建议
Dear Rebecca,
I’m sorry to hear you’re suffering from great stress caused by your mother’s high attention to your grades. I fully understand your wish to have free time for music and friends. Here are my suggestions.
First of all, choose a peaceful moment to communicate with her. Softly tell her you have tried your best and constant pressure makes you tired. You can reach an
agreement: you focus on study in exchange for proper spare time. Besides, try to see her side(理解她的立场,站在她的角度思考). Her close focus on your marks just shows she expects a bright future for you.
If you treat her patiently, she will gradually understand your need to relax. Wish you a harmonious relationship soon.
Yours,
Li Hua
五、给 Simon的建议
Dear Simon,
I feel sorry to know you feel lonely for lack of your parents’ company. It must be painful to study under pressure without their care. Here are my practical suggestions.
First, take the initiative(/ɪˈnɪʃətɪv/ 主动权) to communicate with them. Write a short letter or talk gently when they are free, telling them your loneliness and stress from school. Besides, set a fixed family time. You can
advise a weekend picnic or dinner, letting them realize you need their company badly.
Keep in mind their busy work is to support the whole family. If you open your heart to them, they will surely spare(抽出;拨出;留出;匀出) more time for you.
Yours,
Li Hua
Building skills
A. Reading and speaking
A0. The story is about a girl going through a difficult time in life. Read the story and choose the best answer.
1. What does the underlined word “spotted” in Paragraph 6 most probably mean?
A. noticed B. caught C. drawn D. kept
词义猜测:文中指有人在新泽西发现了林莺,spot=notice(看见、发现)。
2. Why was Ally unwilling to go birdwatching with her mum?
A. She lost interest in taking photos of birds long before.
B. Birdwatching used to be a special activity shared with her father.
C. The wood warblers had all flown back to the south already.
D. She hated walking in the woods alone without her camera.
3. What can we infer about Ally’s father from the text?
A. He was a famous photographer who loved wild birds.
B. He was upset because they failed to find the wood warbler.
C. He created warm and happy memories for Ally.
D. He planned to move to the south to watch birds.
4. What is the main idea of the text?
A. A girl looks back on sweet memories with her late father.
B. A mother tries to cheer up her sad daughter by birdwatching.
C. A special kind of bird called wood warbler is introduced to readers.
D. A girl decides to look for the wood warbler in memory of her dad.
2. Why was Ally unwilling to go birdwatching with her mum? A. She lost interest in taking photos of birds long before.
B. Birdwatching used to be a special activity shared with her father.
C. The wood warblers had all flown back to the south already.
D. She hated walking in the woods alone without her camera.
细节题:Ally和爸爸一直结伴寻找林莺,观鸟是父女专属回忆,父亲离世后这件事对她失去往日意义。
3. What can we infer about Ally’s father from the text?
A. He was a famous photographer who loved wild birds.
B. He was upset because they failed to find the wood warbler.
C. He created warm and happy memories for Ally.
D. He planned to move to the south to watch birds.
推理题:父亲总能让每次外出变得特别,是Ally最好的朋友,给她留下许多温暖回忆。
4. What is the main idea of the text?
A. A girl looks back on sweet memories with her late father.
B. A mother tries to cheer up her sad daughter by birdwatching.
C. A special kind of bird called wood warbler is introduced to readers.
D. A girl decides to look for the wood warbler in memory of her dad.
主旨题:全文围绕女孩思念去世的父亲,回忆父女一同寻鸟的美好往事展开。
A1. Read the story again and answer the questions below.
1. What does the underlined phrase “wood warbler” in the fourth paragraph mean?
2. Why is birdwatching so important in this story?
It is a tiny yellow bird with blue-gray wings and black eyes.
Because Ally used to go birdwatching with her father. It can bring back (使回忆起;使想起) a lot of good memories.
“Nothing will ever be the same again,” Ally said to herself(暗自心想).
Ally’s father died last summer. It wasn’t fair, Ally thought. Dad was young and had never been sick. Why had his heart suddenly stopped? Ally sank (倒下;坐下) slowly into her father’s favorite chair and looked at his picture on the bookcase(书架;书柜). Ally smiled. “I miss you, Dad,” she said softly(轻轻地;轻柔地;温和地;柔和地).
She felt a hand smoothing[(用手) 弄平,抚平] her hair and looked up(抬头往上看). “Why don’t you come outside with me, Ally?” her mother asked. “The birds are nesting in the woods.By this time last year you’d already taken dozens of pictures.”
But her mother must know birdwatching wouldn’t be the same this year. How could it be? Ally wondered. Ever since she could remember she and Dad had been a team, searching the woods for the special wood warbler (林莺 /ˈwɔːblə(r)/) . “I’ll be out in a while, I promise,” she answered.
After her mother left, Ally reached for the photo album she and Dad had put together(组装,组织,汇集,整理). On the cover(封面,封皮) was a photo of a tiny yellow bird with blue-gray wings and black eyes. Dad cut it from a local newspaper. Ally smiled, remembering the excited look on Dad’s face when he showed her the pretty bird.
“I can’t believe someone spotted this little guy way up here in New Jersey,” he said. 真不敢相信居然有人在新泽西这么北边的地方发现了小家伙,”
way(与介词或副词连用 )很远,大量,大大地,远远地
up向(国家北部的地方);向(北方)
“Wood warblers are usually found in the south, not this far north. I bet(我确信; 我敢说) if we search real hard, Ally, we’ll see this little guy together someday.”
Ally closed her eyes. She loved thinking about the times she and Dad had spent searching the woods for the little bird. They’d never spotted the warbler,but her father had an amazing way of making each outing seem special.He was her best friend, and when they were together Ally felt comfortable
(愉快放松的,舒服的,安逸的,自信而无忧虑的;自在的), as she did when she had her favorite blue sweatshirt on.
sweat·shirt /ˈswetʃɜːt/ (长袖)运动衫
If only I could get that good feeling back, she thought, sighing. 她轻轻叹了口气,心里默念:要是能找回当初那种美好的 感觉就好了。
if only但愿
If only I were rich.但愿我很富有。
If only I knew her name.我要是知道她的名字就好了。
If only I had gone by taxi.我要是乘出租车去就好了。
get sth. back 寻回,找回,重新获得(丢失的东西)
sigh /saɪ/ ~ (with sth)叹气,叹息;叹着气说,叹息道
1. What does the underlined phrase “wood warbler” in the fourth paragraph mean?
2 Why is birdwatching so important in this story?
It is a tiny yellow bird with blue-gray wings and black eyes.
Because Ally used to go birdwatching with her father. It can bring back(使回忆起;使想起) a lot of good memories.
A2. Ally is struggling with (受...的困扰) the loss of a loved one. In pairs, role-play a conversation between Ally and her friend, who is offering support. Use the example below to help you and pay attention to the expressions in yellow. Switch(交换;掉换;转换;对调) roles after you finish. Page 66
Friend: I understand how you must feel, but cheer up, Ally.
Ally: I’d like to, but I can’t help thinking of the time Dad and I spent together.I really miss him.
Friend: That must be the sweetest memories you’ve ever had.
Ally: That’s true … Dad was a very positive (积极乐观的;自信的) person and loved nature. We used to go birdwatching a lot.
Friend: Why don’t you write about the days when you went birdwatching with your dad? I’m sure it’ll make you feel better.
Ally: I will. Thank you!
Friend: I think it’s also a good idea to talk to your mother, friends or teachers about your feelings. We all care about you. It’s no good keeping all the pain to yourself (把...藏在心里,独自承受).
Ally: I’ll try. I know you all care about me.
Friend: Exactly. We are all ready to help you move forward with your life (放下过往的伤痛、遗憾,好好继续生活).Your father would also want you to be happy.
Ally: Thank you. I feel much better now.
be no good 没用处/好处/乐趣
B. Listening and writing
B1.1. Leo is talking about the problems he has with his mum. Listen to the talk and choose the best answer.
1. Why did the boy want to go out yesterday evening?
A. To watch a basketball match. B. To take part in basketball training.
C. To finish homework with his teammates.
2. What can we infer about the boy’s mum?
A. She thinks sports are useless for her son’s future.
B. She allows her son to chat with friends at night.
C. She never worries about her son’s sleep at night.
3. What is the speaker mainly talking about?
A. His plan for an important basketball match.
B. Different ways to relax with a mobile phone.
C. Conflicts between him and his mother.
1. Why did the boy want to go out yesterday evening?
A. To watch a basketball match.
B. To take part in basketball training.
C. To finish homework with his teammates.
细节题:原文 “when I was preparing to go to basketball practice”对应篮球训练,选 B。
2. What can we infer about the boy’s mum?
A. She thinks sports are useless for her son’s future.
B. She allows her son to chat with friends at night.
C. She never worries about her son’s sleep at night.
推理题:母亲只看重学习,阻止孩子参加篮球训练,可见她认为运动对前途没有帮助,选 A。
3. What is the speaker mainly talking about?
A. His plan for an important basketball match.
B. Different ways to relax with a mobile phone.
C. Conflicts between him and his mother.
主旨题:全文围绕男孩和妈妈的各种矛盾展开,包括打球、手机使用分歧,选C。
B1.2. Leo is talking about the problems he has with his mum. Listen to the talk and tick the things he says his mum wants him to do in the boxes below.
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Tapescript
Leo: My mum just doesn’t understand me! She only wants me to study for exams,go to a famous university and find a good job. But there are other things in life,
like sport. Yesterday evening, when I was preparing to go to basketball practice,she told me to stay at home and do my homework. I tried to explain to her that my team would have a really important match next week, and that I could finish my homework afterwards, but she didn’t care. Later, she found me chatting with my friend
on my phone and got very angry with me. She said I had to go to bed because I had to get up early for school the next day. Another thing that makes me really frustrated
(/frʌˈstreɪtɪd/ 懊丧;懊恼;沮丧) is that Mum always believes I’m using my mobile phone too much. She thinks I’m always playing mobile games or messaging(发短信 ) my friends and she shouts at me whenever my phone makes any noise. She doesn’t understand that using my phone helps me relax.
B2.1. The next day, Leo’s mum and dad discussed what to do with Leo. Listen to their conversation and choose the best answer.
1. What is the mother’s first worry about Leo?
A. He fails all his exams at school. B. Too much basketball affects his study.
C. He stays up late chatting online every night.
2. What does the phrase “strike a balance” mean?
A. Keep two things in proper order B. Give up one thing for another
C. Put more effort into study
3. What can we infer from the conversation?
A. Dad totally disagrees with Leo’s basketball training.
B. Leo seldom feels tired at school in the daytime.
C. Parents plan to set rules to control Leo’s phone time.
4. What are the two speakers mainly talking about?
A. Preparations for Leo’s basketball match B. Problems of their son Leo and solutions
C. How to make a reasonable daily timetable
1. What is the mother’s first worry about Leo?
A. He fails all his exams at school.
B. Too much basketball affects his study.
C. He stays up late chatting online every night.
2. What does the phrase “strike a balance” mean?
A. Keep two things in proper order
B. Give up one thing for another
C. Put more effort into study
细节题:妈妈首先提出Leo篮球训练过多,耽误学习,选 B。
词义猜测:意为“平衡、兼顾”,对应 A选项让两件事有序协调。
3. What can we infer from the conversation?
A. Dad totally disagrees with Leo’s basketball training.
B. Leo seldom feels tired at school in the daytime.
C. Parents plan to set rules to control Leo’s phone time.
推理题:对话结尾妈妈提出要制定手机使用家规,对应C。爸爸支持篮球训练,排除A;Leo熬夜所以白天疲惫,排除B。
4. What are the two speakers mainly talking about?
A. Preparations for Leo’s basketball match
B. Problems of their son Leo and solutions
C. How to make a reasonable daily timetable
B2.2. The next day, Leo’s mum and dad discussed what to do with Leo. Listen to their conversation and complete the notes below.
主旨题:夫妻二人讨论儿子学习、篮球、手机的问题,并商量解决办法。
test scores
basketball practice
timetable
找到折中办法;平衡
11 p.m.
tired
rules
Tapescript
Mum: I’m worried about Leo. He hasn’t been doing that well in school lately.
Dad: Yeah. His latest test scores ... They’re not terrible, but I know that he can do much better than that.
Mum: Only if he would spend less time on sport! I think he’s having too much basketball practice recently.
Dad: Yeah, the extra basketball practice ... He said his team would have a really important match next week.
I think we’ve got to support him, but he needs to prove that the extra basketball practice won’t influence his performance at school. Why not get him to make a timetable to strike a balance between sport and schoolwork?
Mum: Good idea! I’m also worried that he’s using his smartphone too much. He’s looking down at that little screen all the time! The other day, he was still up chatting with his friend after 11 p.m. on the phone. I told him to stop.
Dad: Yes, he needs to use his phone wisely. It is taking up[占用(时间)] too much of his time and causes him to go to bed late. He needs to get enough sleep—he always looks tired.
Mum: Well, it can’t go on like this. We need to have rules for phone use at home.
B3. Have you had a problem with your parent(s)? Write an email to your parent(s) to explain what the problem is and suggest a way you think you could solve it. Page 67
一、写作思路分析(三段固定步骤)
1. Describing the problem 描述问题
开篇共情,说明矛盾:父母限制晚间外出时间,担心安全与学习,但同龄人都能在外更久;严苛规定让自己缺少社交、放松的空间,内心十分失落。
2. Suggesting solutions 提出解决方案
工作日听从父母安排,按时回家;周末希望放宽时间,允许和朋友看电影、运动;主动承诺提前告知去向、归期,让父母放心。
3. Stating the result you wish to see 期待结果
希望父母认真考虑提议,双方好好沟通,达成双方都满意的约定。
二、范文(简单词汇+高级句型)
Dear Mum and Dad,
I am writing to share my thoughts on our disagreement about the time I must get home/my curfew[ /ˈkɜːfjuː/(尤指儿童)晚间必须回家的时间].
I fully understand you set strict rules because you worry about my safety and school performance. However, most of my friends are permitted to stay out longer. Your strict rules trouble me greatly, leaving me little time to relax and socialize with[ /ˈsəʊʃəlaɪz/ (和他人)交往,交际 ] peers.
Here is my practical suggestion. I promise to return home early on school days as you wish. Yet I hope you can allow me to stay out a little later on weekends for sports or movies. I will keep you informed of my location(准确位置 ) and return time all the time.
I sincerely hope you can take my advice into account and we can talk about it calmly soon.
Love,
Michael
三、亲子规则协商类通用模板
Dear ______,
I’m writing to talk about our disagreement on ______(矛盾: curfew/phone
time/sports time). I totally know you make strict rules out of concern for my safety and study. Nevertheless, most of my peers have more free time, and your rules leave me no chance to relax or communicate with friends, which upsets me a lot.
I have a practical plan. I will follow your requirements on weekdays. Meanwhile, I hope to get more spare time on weekends to _____ (活动:hang out with friends/do sports). I promise to report my activity and time to you in advance.
I would appreciate it if you could consider my idea and have a peaceful talk with me.
Love,
XXX
四、官方范文
Dear Mum and Dad,
As you know, we recently had an argument about what time I come home in the evening.You think that coming home late is dangerous, and bad for my schoolwork. But all of my friends are allowed to stay out later than me. I think your rules are too strict. This has been upsetting me a lot as I can’t spend enough time relaxing and socializing with my friends.
Describing
the problem
I think we can solve the problem together. I’m happy to come home at the time you choose if I have school the next day. But at the weekend I’d like to be able to stay out a bit later so that I can go to the cinema or play some sport with my friends. Will you please consider this suggestion? I’ll always tell you where I’m going and what time I’ll be back home.
I hope that I have made myself clear and that we can discuss this idea soon.
Love from,
Michael
Suggesting
solutions
Stating the result you wish to see
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