Unit 1 Knowing me, Knowing you 建议信（单元同步写作讲义）英语外研版必修第三册

本讲义聚焦高中英语必修第一册Unit 1建议信写作核心知识点，系统梳理建议信“说明目的、提出建议、表达祝愿”的三段式结构，整合常用表达句式与单元“理性沟通、换位思考”主题应用，衔接2023年全国新高考I卷真题案例，构建从基础写作到高考应用的完整学习支架。 资料设计亮点突出，通过“问题-建议-理由”案例表格（如Mike泄密冲突、Lisa边界问题）培养学生分析问题的思维品质，借助必备句式与分层模板提升语言表达能力，结合基础题（词性转换、句子仿写）和提升题（高阶句型训练）助力学习能力发展。课中教师可利用真题链接与案例解析强化教学实效，课后学生能通过模板套用与练习巩固查漏补缺，有效提升建议信写作水平。

必修第一册 Unit 1单元写作指导与演练 Write a Letter for Advice 单元写作早知道 写作任务 本单元的写作任务是写一封建议信。建议信是应用文的常用体裁。建议信是写信者向收信人就某事提出自己的建议或忠告。建议信可以写给个人，也可以写给某个组织或者机构，就某个问题提出自己的看法或建议。 建议信的正文一般可以分为三部分： 第一部分：说明目的； 第二部分：提出建议； 第三部分：表达祝愿。 常用表达 1. You mentioned in your letter that you’re stuck in a conflict with... 2. Knowing you’re troubled by the misunderstanding with your friend, I’m writing to offer suggestions. 3. You have asked for my advice on how to resolve the conflict with your teammate. 4. I suggest that you communicate openly and honestly with... 5. It would be wise to put yourself in others’ shoes before speaking. 6. Why not apologise first and explain your true feelings? 7. Try to resolve conflicts through calm discussion instead of blame. 8. Mutual trust and respect are key to repairing your relationship. 9. I hope these suggestions will help you get along well with others again. 10. Remember: “Think first, speak later” when you’re angry. 单元话题 真题展示 高考链接 建议信 2023年全国新高考I卷 建议信是高考应用文的热点话题。可以是对某个人的问题的建议，也可以对学校，政府及特定团体和组织的建议。 Use what you have learnt to write a letter of advice to one of the teenagers below. 假定你是李华，你的外国笔友Mike来信说，他因抱怨队友被好友泄密，既得罪了队友又失去信任，陷入尴尬。请你给他回一封邮件，内容包括： 1. 表达理解； 2. 提出具体建议； 3. 表达祝愿。 本单元写作要求结合“理性沟通、换位思考”的核心素养，针对人际交往中的真实矛盾提出建议。首先要精准把握对方的问题本质（如信任破裂、沟通不畅、边界不清），再结合单元所学的“先思后言、主动道歉、公开沟通”等策略，提出具体、可操作的建议，避免空泛。 name Problems Suggestions Reasons Mike, 17, America Complained about his teammate to his best friend, but the friend leaked his words. Now he’s embarrassed and angry with both. 1. Apologise to the teammate openly. 2. Talk to his friend calmly about trust. 1. Honest apology can resolve misunderstandings and rebuild team trust. 2. Clear communication helps his friend realise the harm of leaking secrets. Lisa, 16, Canada Her friend always crosses her boundaries (e.g., reads her diary) and she doesn’t know how to refuse. 1. Tell her friend about her discomfort directly. 2. Set clear personal boundaries politely. 1. Open expression helps the friend understand your needs. 2. Mutual respect for boundaries is the foundation of friendship. Tom, 17, Australia Had a fight with his group member over a project—they blame each other for the failure. 1. Listen to each other’s opinions first. 2. Focus on solving problems instead of blaming. 1. Active listening shows respect and helps find the root cause. 2. Blame-free communication promotes team cooperation. 段落 内容 句子设计 第一段 理解对方困境，点明写信目的 You mentioned in your letter that you’re troubled by... I totally understand how embarrassed and angry you feel. I’m writing to share some practical suggestions to help you resolve the problem. 第二段 提出具体建议，说明理由 First, you’d better... This is because... Besides, it would be wise to... As the unit tells us, effective communication is key to... What’s more, try to... It can help you... 第三段 表达祝愿，强调核心 I hope these suggestions will help you rebuild trust and resolve conflicts. Remember that mutual understanding and sincere communication are the most important in relationships. 【小试牛刀】 参考范文1: Dear Mike, I’m truly sorry to hear you’re stuck in an awkward situation—your friend leaked your complaints about the teammate, leaving you angry and embarrassed. I totally get how hurtful it is to be let down by someone close. First, apologise to your teammate openly—honest words can clear up misunderstandings and rebuild team trust. Then, have a calm talk with your friend about trust, letting him know the leak hurt you but you still value the friendship. Sincere communication is the key to mending relationships. I believe you’ll sort things out soon and regain mutual trust! Yours, Li Hua 参考范文2: Dear Lisa, Knowing your friend always crosses your boundaries—like reading your diary—and you don’t know how to refuse, I feel for your discomfort. It’s totally understandable to want respect for your personal space. Try telling her your feelings directly first—open expression helps her understand your needs. Also, set clear boundaries politely, such as saying “I hope you ask before reading my diary.” Mutual respect is the foundation of a healthy friendship. I hope these suggestions help you two get along better. Wish your friendship stays warm and respectful! Yours, Li Hua 参考范文3: Dear Tom, I’m sorry to learn you had a big fight with your group member over the project, with both blaming each other for the failure. Working through conflicts in teamwork can be really stressful. First, listen to each other’s opinions patiently—active listening shows respect and helps find the root cause. Then, focus on solving problems instead of blaming, like dividing tasks based on your strengths. Our unit tells us “blame-free communication” boosts cooperation. I’m sure with these efforts, you’ll resolve the conflict soon and finish the project successfully. Best wishes for your teamwork! Yours, Li Hua 【必备句式】 第一部分：点明问题与理解 1.I’m sorry to hear you’re stuck in a conflict with your friend after the secret was leaked. Such problems are common in interpersonal relationships. 听说秘密泄露后你和朋友陷入了冲突，我很遗憾。这类问题在人际关系中很常见。 2.You wrote that you feel embarrassed and angry because your best friend leaked your complaints about the teammate. I totally get your feelings—trust is the foundation of friendship. 你在信中说，因为最好的朋友泄露了你对队友的抱怨，你感到尴尬又生气。我完全理解你的感受——信任是友谊的基石。 3.Knowing you’re struggling with how to talk to both your teammate and your friend, I’m writing to offer my suggestions. 知道你正纠结于如何与队友和朋友沟通，我写信来给你一些建议。 4.It’s understandable that you’re upset—being let down by someone close is really hurtful. 你感到难过是可以理解的——被亲近的人辜负真的很伤人。 第二部分：提出建议（结合单元核心） 1.I suggest that you apologise to your teammate first. Tell him honestly that you were letting off steam without thinking, and you didn’t mean to hurt him. 我建议你先向队友道歉。诚实地告诉他，你当时是未经思考地发泄情绪，并非有意伤害他。 2.Why not have a calm talk with your friend? You can tell him you’re angry about the leak but still value the friendship. 为什么不和朋友平静地谈一谈呢？你可以告诉他，你对泄密的事很生气，但仍然珍惜这段友谊。 3.It would be wise to communicate openly instead of keeping silent. As the unit says, resolving conflicts requires clear and sincere communication. 坦诚沟通而不是保持沉默是明智的。正如本单元所说，解决冲突需要清晰且真诚的沟通。 4.Try to put yourself in their shoes—your teammate might have had his own difficulties, and your friend might not have realised the harm of leaking words. 试着换位思考——你的队友可能有自己的难处，而你的朋友或许没意识到泄密的危害。5.If you feel 5.someone crosses your boundaries, don’t hesitate to say so politely. Mutual respect for personal space helps maintain friendship. 如果你觉得有人越了你的界，别犹豫，礼貌地指出来。对个人空间的相互尊重有助于维系友谊。 第三部分：祝愿与总结 1.I hope these suggestions will help you resolve the conflicts and rebuild mutual trust. 希望这些建议能帮助你解决冲突并重建互信。 2.Remember: “Think first, speak later” when you’re angry—this will avoid many misunderstandings. 记住：生气时要“三思而后言”——这能避免很多误会。 3.Sincere communication and mutual understanding are the keys to good relationships. I believe you’ll sort things out soon. 真诚的沟通和相互理解是良好关系的关键。我相信你很快就能解决这些问题。 4.Best wishes for your friendship and team cooperation! If you need more help, feel free to write to me. 祝你友谊长存、团队合作顺利！如果你需要更多帮助，随时可以给我写信。 【必背模板】 模板① Dear________, You mentioned in your letter that you’re troubled by the conflict with________(对方的人际问题). I totally understand how you feel—being stuck in such a situation is really frustrating. To resolve the problem, I’d like to offer three practical suggestions. First,(建议1). This is because(理由1，结合单元“理性沟通”核心). Second,(建议2). As the unit tells us,(单元核心观点，如“mutual trust is vital”). Third,(建议3). It can help you(具体效果). I hope these suggestions will be useful. Remember that sincere communication and 换位思考 are the most important in interpersonal relationships. Wish you all the best! Yours sincerely, Li Hua 模板② Dear_______, I’m sorry to hear you’re struggling with________(对方的问题，如“the misunderstanding with your friend”). It’s totally normal to feel upset when trust is broken. Here are my suggestions for you. First of all,(建议1，如“apologise to your teammate openly”). Honest apology can help resolve misunderstandings quickly. Besides,(建议2，如“talk to your friend about the importance of trust”). This will make him realise his mistake without hurting your friendship. What’s more,________(建议3，如“think twice before speaking when you’re angry”). As the old saying goes, “Loose lips sink ships”—careless words can cause unnecessary trouble. I believe with these efforts, you’ll soon get along well with them again. Best wishes! Yours sincerely, Li Hua 【升级策略】 1. 建议信注意事项： 观点要贴合单元“理性沟通、换位思考”核心，避免脱离单元主题； 建议要具体可操作，结合单元案例（如Ben的困境解决），不空洞； 语气要真诚、礼貌，既要表达理解，又要给出明确方向，避免指责。 2.写作方法： 首段：先共情，再点题，让对方感受到被理解； 主体：每条建议配 1 个理由，理由可结合单元词汇（如 resolve conflicts, mutual trust）或观点（如 “think first, speak later”）； 3. 尾段：回归单元核心，强调真诚沟通的重要性，避免画蛇添足。 写作流程图 理解对方人际问题 表达共情 结合单元核心提出具体建议 强调单元核心观点 表达祝愿 假定你是李华，你的外国笔友Mike来信说，他因球队输球抱怨队友，向好友倾诉后被泄密，现在既尴尬又生气，不知道如何面对队友和好友，请求你给出建议。请你给他回一封邮件，内容包括： 表达理解； 提出具体建议； 表达祝愿。 注意：1.词80字左右； 2.可适当增加细节，以使行文连贯。__________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Yours， Li Hua. 审题 1．文体：应用文。 2．时态：一般现在时和一般将来时为主。 3．人称：第一人称（表达你的建议），第二人称（陈述确认对方的问题）。 谋篇 第一段：明确问题和写信的目的。 第二段：提出建议。 第三段：祝愿和问候。 遣词造句 【核心词汇】 1. forgive 2.apologise 3.resolve 4.boundaries 5.misunderstanding 6.communicate openly 7.mutual trust 8.Troubled by...（-ed 形式作状语结构） 9.Encouraged by...（-ed 形式作状语结构） 10.put oneself in others’ shoes 【连词成句】 1.Troubled by the misunderstanding with your friend, I’m writing to express my concern and share my advice on resolving it. 2.In my opinion, communicating openly and putting yourself in others’ shoes is of great benefit to repairing your relationship. 3.You can build mutual trust by learning to forgive and apologise sincerely. 4.In order to resolve conflicts, you should be brave to talk about boundaries with people around you. 5.When facing a conflict, you’d better calm down first. 6.You will find it easier to forgive and move on.【句式升级】 将2、3句合成一个句子：In my opinion, communicating openly and putting yourself in others’ shoes is of great benefit to repairing your relationship, by which you can build mutual trust through forgiveness and sincere apology. 将5、6句合成一个句子：When facing a conflict, you’d better calm down first, so that you will find it easier to forgive and move on. 组句成篇 用适当的过渡词语，把以上词汇和句式，再加上联想内容，组成一篇80词左右的英语短文。 Dear Peter, I’m sorry to know that you’re troubled by the misunderstanding with your friend. I am writing to express my concern and share my advice on resolving it efficiently. In my opinion, communicating openly and putting yourself in his shoes is of great benefit to you, by which you can rebuild mutual trust. Besides, in order to resolve the conflict, you should be brave to apologise and talk about boundaries with him. Troubled by the argument, you’d better calm down first, so that you will find it easier to forgive and move on. I do expect the above tips are beneficial to your relationship. Wish you good luck in mending it! Kindest regards, Yours,Li Hua 【第一部分 基础题】 ​​一、词性转换训练​​ 将下列单元核心动词转换为名词或形容词，用于建议句式： apologise → (n.) ______ → (adj.) ______ forgive → (n.) ______ → (adj.) ______ resolve → (n.) ______ → (adj.) ______ communicate → (n.) ______ → (adj.) ______ 用括号内单词的正确形式填空： It’s important to have ______ (open) communication when resolving conflicts. Mutual ______ (trust) is the foundation of any good relationship. The teacher suggested we ______ (apologise) to each other for the misunderstanding. 【参考答案】 1.apology; apologetic 2. forgiveness; forgiving 3. resolution; resolute 4. communication; communicative 1.open 2. trust 3. apologise ​​二、句子仿写改写​​ 原句：You should talk to your teammate. It helps rebuild trust.→ 合并为复合句：______→ 用单元核心短语改写：______ 原句：Don’t speak carelessly when you’re angry.→ 用单元习语改写：______ 提升层：高阶句型 原句：You need to communicate openly with your friend.→ 虚拟语气：______→ 倒装句：______ 原句：Sincere communication is important for resolving conflicts.→ 强调重要性（结合单元核心）：______ 【参考答案】 基础层 You should talk to your teammate, which helps rebuild mutual trust. / Talking to your teammate is a good way to resolve the conflict. Remember “Loose lips sink ships”—don’t speak carelessly when you’re angry. 提升层 If I were you, I would communicate openly with your friend. / Not only should you communicate openly with your friend, but also you should explain your true feelings. There’s no denying that sincere communication plays a vital role in resolving interpersonal conflicts—this is what our unit emphasizes. ​​三、翻译句子​​ 要求：用建议信常用句式翻译，结合单元核心词汇。 我建议你先向你的队友道歉。 为什么不冷静地和你的朋友谈谈信任的重要性呢？ 换位思考是解决人际矛盾的关键。 ​​【参考答案】 I suggest that you apologise to your teammate first. Why not talk to your friend calmly about the importance of mutual trust? Putting yourself in others’ shoes is the key to resolving interpersonal conflicts. 【第二部分 提升题】 1. 假定你是李华，你的朋友Lisa来信说，她的好友总是随意翻看她的日记、打听她的隐私，让她很困扰，不知道如何拒绝。请你给她回一封建议信， 2. 内容包括：① 表达理解；② 提出具体建议；③ 表达祝愿。（词数80字左右） __________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 【佳作欣赏】 Dear Lisa, I’m sorry to hear you’re troubled by your friend crossing your boundaries. It’s totally understandable to feel uncomfortable when your privacy isn’t respected. I suggest you tell her your feelings directly—say you value the friendship but need personal space. You can also set clear rules politely, like not letting others read your diary. As our unit says, mutual respect is key to friendship. I hope these suggestions help. Wish you and your friend get along better soon! Yours, Li Hua 2. 你的同学Tom因小组项目和组员发生摩擦，双方互相指责，项目进展受阻。请你给他写一封建议信，结合单元 “理性沟通” 核心，提出解决建议。（词数80字左右） __________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 【佳作欣赏】 Dear Tom, Knowing you’re stuck in a fight with your group member over the project, I’m writing to offer suggestions. Blaming each other won’t help—our unit teaches us to resolve conflicts calmly. First, listen to each other’s opinions patiently. Then, focus on solving problems instead of pointing fingers. You can divide tasks based on strengths. Sincere communication will make the project go smoothly. Hope you sort it out soon. Best wishes for your project! Yours, Li Hua 3. 假定你是李华，你的外国笔友Peter来信说，他因拒绝好友的不合理请求（如抄作业）而被疏远，感到难过。请你给他回信，提出建议。（词数80字左右） __________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 【佳作欣赏】 Dear Peter, I’m sorry to hear you’re sad about being 疏远 by your friend after refusing his unreasonable request. It’s brave of you to stick to principles. I suggest you talk to him calmly—explain refusing to let him copy homework is to help him learn. You can offer to help with his studies instead. Remember, true friendship respects each other’s principles. Wish you two reconcile soon! Yours, Li Hua 【链接高考—经典诵读】 假定你是李华，你的外教Smith计划组织“人际沟通技巧分享会”，向学生征集建议。请你给外教写一封邮件，内容包括：①说明分享会的核心需求（如解决朋友矛盾、团队合作摩擦）；②提出具体建议（如案例分析、角色扮演）。__________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 【佳作欣赏1】 Dear Mr. Smith, I’m glad to hear you’ll organize a workshop on interpersonal communication. As students, we often face conflicts with friends or teammates, so practical skills are badly needed. I suggest adding case analyses from our unit, like Ben’s dilemma, to discuss solutions. Role-playing is also a good idea—we can practice resolving conflicts in real scenarios. Besides, inviting teachers to share experiences will make it more helpful. Thank you for your efforts. I’m looking forward to the workshop! Yours sincerely, Li Hua 【佳作欣赏2】 Dear Mr. Smith, I’m excited to know you’ll hold a workshop on interpersonal communication skills. As teenagers, we often face challenges like resolving friend misunderstandings and team cooperation friction, so practical guidance is what we need most. I recommend including case analyses from our unit, such as the debate on white lies and the porcupine dilemma, to explore how to communicate openly and respect boundaries. Additionally, a role-play activity where we practice apologizing and active listening would be of great benefit—using structures like “Troubled by the conflict, I chose to talk it out” can help us apply grammar in real scenarios. I believe this workshop will be very helpful. Looking forward to it! Yours sincerely, Li Hua 【佳作欣赏3】 Dear Mr. Smith, Hearing about your plan to organize an interpersonal communication skills sharing session, I’m writing to offer some suggestions. We students urgently need to learn how to resolve conflicts with friends and handle team disputes, so the session should focus on these core needs. First, analyzing real-life cases from our unit (like Ben’s struggle with boundaries) can help us understand how to put ourselves in others’ shoes. Second, role-playing activities where we practice using “-ed form” structures (e.g., “Encouraged by your tips, I’ll try to communicate more sincerely”) would be beneficial. Finally, inviting a counselor to share strategies for building mutual trust could add great value. I hope these ideas are useful. Best wishes for the session! Yours sincerely, Li Hua 7 / 12 学科网（北京）股份有限公司 学科网（北京）股份有限公司 $ 必修第一册 Unit 1单元写作指导与演练 Write a Letter for Advice 单元写作早知道 写作任务 本单元的写作任务是写一封建议信。建议信是应用文的常用体裁。建议信是写信者向收信人就某事提出自己的建议或忠告。建议信可以写给个人，也可以写给某个组织或者机构，就某个问题提出自己的看法或建议。 建议信的正文一般可以分为三部分： 第一部分：说明目的； 第二部分：提出建议； 第三部分：表达祝愿。 常用表达 1. You mentioned in your letter that you’re stuck in a conflict with... 2. Knowing you’re troubled by the misunderstanding with your friend, I’m writing to offer suggestions. 3. You have asked for my advice on how to resolve the conflict with your teammate. 4. I suggest that you communicate openly and honestly with... 5. It would be wise to put yourself in others’ shoes before speaking. 6. Why not apologise first and explain your true feelings? 7. Try to resolve conflicts through calm discussion instead of blame. 8. Mutual trust and respect are key to repairing your relationship. 9. I hope these suggestions will help you get along well with others again. 10. Remember: “Think first, speak later” when you’re angry. 单元话题 真题展示 高考链接 建议信 2023年全国新高考I卷 建议信是高考应用文的热点话题。可以是对某个人的问题的建议，也可以对学校，政府及特定团体和组织的建议。 Use what you have learnt to write a letter of advice to one of the teenagers below. 假定你是李华，你的外国笔友Mike来信说，他因抱怨队友被好友泄密，既得罪了队友又失去信任，陷入尴尬。请你给他回一封邮件，内容包括： 1. 表达理解； 2. 提出具体建议； 3. 表达祝愿。 本单元写作要求结合“理性沟通、换位思考”的核心素养，针对人际交往中的真实矛盾提出建议。首先要精准把握对方的问题本质（如信任破裂、沟通不畅、边界不清），再结合单元所学的“先思后言、主动道歉、公开沟通”等策略，提出具体、可操作的建议，避免空泛。 name Problems Suggestions Reasons Mike, 17, America Complained about his teammate to his best friend, but the friend leaked his words. Now he’s embarrassed and angry with both. 1. Apologise to the teammate openly. 2. Talk to his friend calmly about trust. 1. Honest apology can resolve misunderstandings and rebuild team trust. 2. Clear communication helps his friend realise the harm of leaking secrets. Lisa, 16, Canada Her friend always crosses her boundaries (e.g., reads her diary) and she doesn’t know how to refuse. 1. Tell her friend about her discomfort directly. 2. Set clear personal boundaries politely. 1. Open expression helps the friend understand your needs. 2. Mutual respect for boundaries is the foundation of friendship. Tom, 17, Australia Had a fight with his group member over a project—they blame each other for the failure. 1. Listen to each other’s opinions first. 2. Focus on solving problems instead of blaming. 1. Active listening shows respect and helps find the root cause. 2. Blame-free communication promotes team cooperation. 段落 内容 句子设计 第一段 理解对方困境，点明写信目的 You mentioned in your letter that you’re troubled by... I totally understand how embarrassed and angry you feel. I’m writing to share some practical suggestions to help you resolve the problem. 第二段 提出具体建议，说明理由 First, you’d better... This is because... Besides, it would be wise to... As the unit tells us, effective communication is key to... What’s more, try to... It can help you... 第三段 表达祝愿，强调核心 I hope these suggestions will help you rebuild trust and resolve conflicts. Remember that mutual understanding and sincere communication are the most important in relationships. 【必备句式】 第一部分：点明问题与理解 1.I’m sorry to hear you’re stuck in a conflict with your friend after the secret was leaked. Such problems are common in interpersonal relationships. 听说秘密泄露后你和朋友陷入了冲突，我很遗憾。这类问题在人际关系中很常见。 2.You wrote that you feel embarrassed and angry because your best friend leaked your complaints about the teammate. I totally get your feelings—trust is the foundation of friendship. 你在信中说，因为最好的朋友泄露了你对队友的抱怨，你感到尴尬又生气。我完全理解你的感受——信任是友谊的基石。 3.Knowing you’re struggling with how to talk to both your teammate and your friend, I’m writing to offer my suggestions. 知道你正纠结于如何与队友和朋友沟通，我写信来给你一些建议。 4.It’s understandable that you’re upset—being let down by someone close is really hurtful. 你感到难过是可以理解的——被亲近的人辜负真的很伤人。 第二部分：提出建议（结合单元核心） 1.I suggest that you apologise to your teammate first. Tell him honestly that you were letting off steam without thinking, and you didn’t mean to hurt him. 我建议你先向队友道歉。诚实地告诉他，你当时是未经思考地发泄情绪，并非有意伤害他。 2.Why not have a calm talk with your friend? You can tell him you’re angry about the leak but still value the friendship. 为什么不和朋友平静地谈一谈呢？你可以告诉他，你对泄密的事很生气，但仍然珍惜这段友谊。 3.It would be wise to communicate openly instead of keeping silent. As the unit says, resolving conflicts requires clear and sincere communication. 坦诚沟通而不是保持沉默是明智的。正如本单元所说，解决冲突需要清晰且真诚的沟通。 4.Try to put yourself in their shoes—your teammate might have had his own difficulties, and your friend might not have realised the harm of leaking words. 试着换位思考——你的队友可能有自己的难处，而你的朋友或许没意识到泄密的危害。5.If you feel 5.someone crosses your boundaries, don’t hesitate to say so politely. Mutual respect for personal space helps maintain friendship. 如果你觉得有人越了你的界，别犹豫，礼貌地指出来。对个人空间的相互尊重有助于维系友谊。 第三部分：祝愿与总结 1.I hope these suggestions will help you resolve the conflicts and rebuild mutual trust. 希望这些建议能帮助你解决冲突并重建互信。 2.Remember: “Think first, speak later” when you’re angry—this will avoid many misunderstandings. 记住：生气时要“三思而后言”——这能避免很多误会。 3.Sincere communication and mutual understanding are the keys to good relationships. I believe you’ll sort things out soon. 真诚的沟通和相互理解是良好关系的关键。我相信你很快就能解决这些问题。 4.Best wishes for your friendship and team cooperation! If you need more help, feel free to write to me. 祝你友谊长存、团队合作顺利！如果你需要更多帮助，随时可以给我写信。 【必背模板】 模板① Dear________, You mentioned in your letter that you’re troubled by the conflict with________(对方的人际问题). I totally understand how you feel—being stuck in such a situation is really frustrating. To resolve the problem, I’d like to offer three practical suggestions. First,(建议1). This is because(理由1，结合单元“理性沟通”核心). Second,(建议2). As the unit tells us,(单元核心观点，如“mutual trust is vital”). Third,(建议3). It can help you(具体效果). I hope these suggestions will be useful. Remember that sincere communication and 换位思考 are the most important in interpersonal relationships. Wish you all the best! Yours sincerely, Li Hua 模板② Dear_______, I’m sorry to hear you’re struggling with________(对方的问题，如“the misunderstanding with your friend”). It’s totally normal to feel upset when trust is broken. Here are my suggestions for you. First of all,(建议1，如“apologise to your teammate openly”). Honest apology can help resolve misunderstandings quickly. Besides,(建议2，如“talk to your friend about the importance of trust”). This will make him realise his mistake without hurting your friendship. What’s more,________(建议3，如“think twice before speaking when you’re angry”). As the old saying goes, “Loose lips sink ships”—careless words can cause unnecessary trouble. I believe with these efforts, you’ll soon get along well with them again. Best wishes! Yours sincerely, Li Hua 【升级策略】 1. 建议信注意事项： 观点要贴合单元“理性沟通、换位思考”核心，避免脱离单元主题； 建议要具体可操作，结合单元案例（如Ben的困境解决），不空洞； 语气要真诚、礼貌，既要表达理解，又要给出明确方向，避免指责。 2.写作方法： 首段：先共情，再点题，让对方感受到被理解； 主体：每条建议配1个理由，理由可结合单元词汇（如 resolve conflicts, mutual trust）或观点（如“think first, speak later”）； 3. 尾段：回归单元核心，强调真诚沟通的重要性，避免画蛇添足。 写作流程图 理解对方人际问题 表达共情 结合单元核心提出具体建议 强调单元核心观点 表达祝愿 假定你是李华，你的外国笔友Mike来信说，他因球队输球抱怨队友，向好友倾诉后被泄密，现在既尴尬又生气，不知道如何面对队友和好友，请求你给出建议。请你给他回一封邮件，内容包括： 表达理解； 提出具体建议； 表达祝愿。 注意：1.词数80字左右； 2.可适当增加细节，以使行文连贯。__________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Yours， Li Hua. 审题 1．文体：应用文。 2．时态：一般现在时和一般将来时为主。 3．人称：第一人称（表达你的建议），第二人称（陈述确认对方的问题）。 谋篇 第一段：明确问题和写信的目的。 第二段：提出建议。 第三段：祝愿和问候。 遣词造句 【核心词汇】 1. forgive 2.apologise 3.resolve 4.boundaries 5.misunderstanding 6.communicate openly 7.mutual trust 8.Troubled by...（-ed形式作状语结构） 9.Encouraged by...（-ed形式作状语结构） 10.put oneself in others’ shoes 【连词成句】 1.Troubled by the misunderstanding with your friend, I’m writing to express my concern and share my advice on resolving it. 2.In my opinion, communicating openly and putting yourself in others’ shoes is of great benefit to repairing your relationship. 3.You can build mutual trust by learning to forgive and apologise sincerely. 4.In order to resolve conflicts, you should be brave to talk about boundaries with people around you. 5.When facing a conflict, you’d better calm down first. 6.You will find it easier to forgive and move on.【句式升级】 将2、3句合成一个句子：In my opinion, communicating openly and putting yourself in others’ shoes is of great benefit to repairing your relationship, by which you can build mutual trust through forgiveness and sincere apology. 将5、6句合成一个句子：When facing a conflict, you’d better calm down first, so that you will find it easier to forgive and move on. 组句成篇 用适当的过渡词语，把以上词汇和句式，再加上联想内容，组成一篇80词左右的英语短文。 【第一部分 基础题】 ​​一、词性转换训练​​ 将下列单元核心动词转换为名词或形容词，用于建议句式： apologise → (n.) ______ → (adj.) ______ forgive → (n.) ______ → (adj.) ______ resolve → (n.) ______ → (adj.) ______ communicate → (n.) ______ → (adj.) ______ 用括号内单词的正确形式填空： It’s important to have ______ (open) communication when resolving conflicts. Mutual ______ (trust) is the foundation of any good relationship. The teacher suggested we ______ (apologise) to each other for the misunderstanding. 【参考答案】 1.apology; apologetic 2. forgiveness; forgiving 3. resolution; resolute 4. communication; communicative 1.open 2. trust 3. apologise ​​二、句子仿写改写​​ 原句：You should talk to your teammate. It helps rebuild trust.→ 合并为复合句：______→ 用单元核心短语改写：______ 原句：Don’t speak carelessly when you’re angry.→ 用单元习语改写：______ 提升层：高阶句型 原句：You need to communicate openly with your friend.→ 虚拟语气：______→ 倒装句：______ 原句：Sincere communication is important for resolving conflicts.→ 强调重要性（结合单元核心）：______ 【参考答案】 基础层 You should talk to your teammate, which helps rebuild mutual trust. / Talking to your teammate is a good way to resolve the conflict. Remember “Loose lips sink ships”—don’t speak carelessly when you’re angry. 提升层 If I were you, I would communicate openly with your friend. / Not only should you communicate openly with your friend, but also you should explain your true feelings. There’s no denying that sincere communication plays a vital role in resolving interpersonal conflicts—this is what our unit emphasizes. ​​三、翻译句子​​ 要求：用建议信常用句式翻译，结合单元核心词汇。 我建议你先向你的队友道歉。 为什么不冷静地和你的朋友谈谈信任的重要性呢？ 换位思考是解决人际矛盾的关键。 ​​【参考答案】 I suggest that you apologise to your teammate first. Why not talk to your friend calmly about the importance of mutual trust? Putting yourself in others’ shoes is the key to resolving interpersonal conflicts. 【第二部分 提升题】 1. 假定你是李华，你的朋友Lisa来信说，她的好友总是随意翻看她的日记、打听她的隐私，让她很困扰，不知道如何拒绝。请你给她回一封建议信， 2. 内容包括：①表达理解；②提出具体建议；③表达祝愿。（词数80字左右） __________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 2. 你的同学Tom因小组项目和组员发生摩擦，双方互相指责，项目进展受阻。请你给他写一封建议信，结合单元“理性沟通”核心，提出解决建议。（词数80字左右） __________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 3. 假定你是李华，你的外国笔友Peter来信说，他因拒绝好友的不合理请求（如抄作业）而被疏远，感到难过。请你给他回信，提出建议。（词数80字左右） __________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 【链接高考—经典诵读】 假定你是李华，你的外教Smith计划组织“人际沟通技巧分享会”，向学生征集建议。请你给外教写一封邮件，内容包括：①说明分享会的核心需求（如解决朋友矛盾、团队合作摩擦）；②提出具体建议（如案例分析、角色扮演）。__________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ 7 / 12 学科网（北京）股份有限公司 学科网（北京）股份有限公司 $