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Unit2
Why don’t you talk to your parents?
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Do a survey (调查)
problems
study
parents
friends
phones
40%
20%
30%
10%
What information can you get from the survey?
Your problems?
What do you usually do when you meet problems?
Lucy
Where was she?
How was she?
Read and answer
That night, I argued with my mom.
When I was doing my homework in my room, my mom came into my bedroom without knocking. She never knocks before coming into my bedroom. So, I shouted to her, “Knock at the door! I told you about that.”
My mom said, “Oh, I just want to bring you some water and check if everything is OK.”
“I don’t need any water. Just leave me alone. Get out of my bedroom, OK?” I shouted back.
“You shouldn’t talk to me like that!” my mom replied to me.
“Well, I don’t want to talk to you anymore.” then I kept silent.
“In that case, you can go now!” She said angrily.
I didn’t look at her, just walked past her and went out of the house, leaving her in my bedroom.
Lucy’s story
What was Lucy’s problem?
What did she do when she met the problem?
Her mom came into her bedroom without knocking.
She argued with her mom and went out of the house.
Did you argue with your parents? Why?
Did you go out of your house? Why?
Read and answer
At the same time, I went through a noodle shop and I suddenly felt hungry. The seller asked, “Little girl, you want to eat a bowl?”
“But I have no money…” I shyly replied.
“Don’t worry. I’ll treat(招待) you.” He said.
“I’m so moved by your kindness. A stranger gives me a bowl of noodles. But my mom let me out of the house. She’s rude(粗鲁的).” I cried.
“Girl, why do you think so? Think again. I just give you a bowl of noodles. But your mother takes care of you every day. Although she might do something wrong, it’s not a big deal. In my opinion, you should thank her.”
I was so surprised and looked at the seller. I never thought that way.
“Why don’t you go home and communicate with your mom actively and kindly?”
I knew I should go home right now.
Lucy’s story
How did the noodle seller help Lucy?
What was the seller’s advice?
He gave Lucy a bowl of noodles and some advice.
Lucy should thank her mom, go home and communicate with her mom actively and kindly.
a bowl of noodles
some advice
Read and answer
At the same time, I went through a noodle shop and I suddenly felt hungry. The seller asked, “Little girl, you want to eat a bowl?”
“But I have no money…” I shyly replied.
“Don’t worry. I’ll treat(招待) you.” He said.
“I’m so moved by your kindness. A stranger gives me a bowl of noodles. But my mom let me out of the house. She’s rude(粗鲁的).” I cried.
“Girl, why do you think so? Think again. I just give you a bowl of noodles. But your mother takes care of you every day. Although she might do something wrong, it’s not a big deal. In my opinion, you should thank her.”
I was so surprised and look at the seller. I never thought that way.
“Why don’t you go home and communicate with your mom actively and nicely?”
I knew I should go home right now.
Lucy’s story
How did Lucy’s feelings change?
When we meet a problem,
face up to it
and communicate actively!
正视问题,积极沟通!
If you were Lucy, what would you do next?
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Read and answer
Are there any ways to make good communication?
It’s helpful to listen to each other. Listen to what they want to say with ears, eyes and hearts. Then you can understand them.
Opening your mind is very important. Don’t always focus on showing that you’re right. Try to accept others’ ideas. That’ll help you calm down.
It is important to voice your feelings, too. Talk about problems with “I”. Say “I feel hurt.” Don’t say “You never spend time with me.” That way, you are talking about the influence(影响)but not blame(责备).
Remember to be equal(平等的)to each other. Everyone has his or her own way to do things. We should respect (尊重)each other.
Voice your feelings
Listen to each other
Open your mind
Be equal to each other
How to make good communication?
What is the foundation(基础) of good communication?
Voice your feelings
Listen to each other
Open your mind
Equal to each other
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Love is an eternal(永恒的) truth.
With love, you can communicate well without any skills.
What is the foundation(基础) of good communication?
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Watch and answer
Did the boy get the things at first? Why or why not?
To get the ice cream, what did he say?
To play video games, what did he do?
Watch and answer
1. Did he get the things at first? Why or why not?
No.
ask directly
the facts
Watch and answer
2. To get the ice cream, what did he say?
Watch and answer
2. To get the ice cream, what did he say?
When we communicate with a person,
know what he cares about
and what is important to him first!
Did the boy make good communication? Why?
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Watch and answer
3. To play the video game, what did he do?
He folded clothes for his mom.
If you want to communicate well,
Learn to give and help.
Then you’ll get what you want.
Why did the boy help her mom first?
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Discuss
What should I do to communicate with my mom?
Why don’t you…?
Why not…?
In my opinion, you could/should…
How/What about…?
You’d better…
Although…, it’s not a big deal.
Show time
你可以这样来展示:
A: What’s wrong with you? You look…
B: I …
A: Why don’t you…/Why not…/In my opinion, you should/How about…/You had better do…
B:…
A:…
B: Thank you for your advice. I will…
Work in pairs to make a conversation.
One talks about your problems.
The other gives some advice (especially some ways to make good communication).
Face up to problems
Go to COMMUNICATE
Solve your problems
Let it go and move on
Make your life better
Do more research on your classmates’ problems. Make your class problem and way bank.
Speak out your story.(说出你的故事)
You must:
Give your partner more advice about his or her problem.
Try to communicate with your parents or friends to solve your problems.
If you can:
Homework
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