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专攻解题法与技巧 外研教必4修第三册Unit1拓展阅读 1 Good friends are worth fighting for 沟通像一缕和煦的阳光，能消除隔阂，拉近彼此的距离。 Conflict is a normal element in any relationship.In whatever case,you have to start from the basic level:How is your communication with your friends?Here are a few questions you can ask yourself:Are you talking behind each other's backs?Are you confronting or criticising each other?Are you focusing on resolving the problem or winning the argument? When resolving conflicts,you need to negotiate.In any negotiation,you are not going to get everything you want.The same goes for your classmates.So,you have to come together to compromise().That's what adults do.We compromise. We can't win every single case,especially if we want to weave meaningful and steady relationships.If you have the idea that you should be able to get every single thing that you want,then you might still be stuck in a child's mindset.That's what children do.They want what they want.But that's not how adults should be.Try to analyse your communication with your friends.Are you listening well to them?Are they listening well to you?Start from there,and break the communication down into its parts.See if both parties are on the same page.Communication is supposed to be healthy.It should be a two-way street. You can't have a healthy relationship without having a healthy conflict.When two human beings interact,there are going to be disagreements.That is just how people are.It is part of our design.But,there is a silver lining.From conflicts,stronger bonds can grow. When you can resolve a conflict together,you will leamn new things about each other and about the relationship itself.That will bring you closer together as a unit and it will create a bond that is stronger than before.From conflicts,you will know who your true friends are 1 专攻解题法与技巧 and who are not.Because true friends will stick around even when things get tough.But fake friends will easily get annoyed and you will grow apart as soon as things go south.