Unit 3 how to communicate with your parents 2026-2027学年沪教版英语九年级上册

U3 Cross-curricular connection How to communicate with your parents Case 1 Jacob kept asking his mother whether he could buy a new pair of shoes when she was busy in the kitchen Case 1 What’s wrong with Jacob’s behavior? Do you think he should shout at his mother? No. I don’t think he should shout at his mother, children should respect others, especially parents. Do you think he should talk to his mother when she is busy in the kitchen? No. I think he should choose a better time to talk. He should wait until his mother is free. Case 2 Carol wanted to get a pet cat but her parents said no. She was so angry with her parents that she didn’t talk to them for a week. Case 2 What’s wrong with Carol’s behavior? Do you think she should refuse to speak to her parents for a week? No. I don’t think so, because it can’t solve the problem. What advice would you give her? I advise her to calm down and try to talk to her parents at a proper time. She should manage her feelings. What should they pay attention to? They should pay attention to their communication skills Many young people have trouble communicating with their parents. How to communicate with your parents Cross-curricular connection/Psychology 1. Do you enjoy talking with your parents? Why or why not? I enjoy talking to them because ... I don’t enjoy it because ... 2. What do you usually talk about with your parents? • schoolwork • friends • hobbies • problems • future plans 3. Have you ever had problems communicating with your parents? • What happened? • How did you feel? I felt ... I became ... Pre-reading Think and discuss How to communicate with your parents? 1. How many tips are mentioned in this text? Four 2. What does “tip” mean? Pieces of advice /suggestions. 熟词生义：小费/指尖 3. What is the purpose of the text? A. To tell a story B. To introduce a family C. To show conflicts D. To give some advice D Pre-reading 5. How is the text organized? A.12-34-56 B. 1-234-56 C. 1-12345-6 D. 123-456 1 2 3 4 5 6 4. Please label the paragraphs C 6. What is the function of the logical words like “First” and“Second”? A. To show his feelings B. To ask questions C. To list different advice D. To act as linking verbs C While-reading Read for details Tip Key idea Reason 1 Find an answer that is to everyone. Don't expect to go your way. 2 Talk to your parents when it’s __________________. They may be _____ after work. 3 _______ to your parents have to say. They will probably understand your ________ . 4 Try not to get too _____. Find out _____ your parents disagree with you. convenient for them Listen angry tired situation why acceptable everything 1. What should you do first when you have disagreements with your parents? 2. Why should you talk to your parents when it is convenient for them? 3. What is part of growing up according to the text? Questions While-reading First, make a list of the things you and your parents disagree about most. For each thing on the list, try to find an answer that is acceptable to you and your parents. It is not a good idea to expect everything to go your way. You need to be ready to change a little yourself if you want them to change. 1. What should you do first when you have disagreements with your parents? I should make a list of the things my parents and I disagree about most and try to find an answer that is acceptable to my parents and me./us. 原文 注意：1. 提问first，则只答first即可，后面不用答 2. 改变人称：第二人称改成第一人称 2. Why should you talk to your parents when it is convenient for them? Second, talk to your parents when it is convenient for them. Remember that your parents may have to work long hours. This can make them tired, so be patient with them. Because my parents may have to work long hours and feel tired, and I need to be patient with them. 原·文 注意：1. 提问why，则答because+句子 2. 改变人称：第二人称改成第一人称 3. 罗列多个句子之间需要加and Finally, if you do not get a satisfactory result, try not to get too angry. Talk to your parents and find out why they disagree with you. Part of growing up is learning to live with these kinds of disagreements, and learning to understand another person’s way of looking at things. 3. What is part of growing up according to the text? It is learning to live with these kinds of disagreements, and learning to understand another person’s way of looking at things. stand:忍受 注意：名词问，代词答 Many young people have trouble ___________(communicate)with their parents. Here are _____________________(一些有用的建议) for solving this problem. First, ______________(制作一个清单)of the things you and your parents disagree about most. For each thing on list, try to find an answer that is acceptable ________you and your parents. It is not a good idea to expect everything to ____________(按某人的意愿进行). You need to be ready to change a little yourself you want them (change). How to communicate with your parents go your way communicating some useful tips make a list to fine/satisfactory want go as you wish prepare if to change pieces of advice/suggestions the Second, talk to your parents when it is _____________(convenience)for them. Remember that your parents may have to work long hours. This can make them ______(tire), so be patient __________ them. (three), listen to what your parents have to say. How can you expect them_________(listen) to you if you do not listen to them? Remember that your parents were young once ______you, so they will understand your situation _________(good) than you think. convenient tired with to listen like better Third want ________(final), if you do not get a ___________(satisfy) result, try not to get too angry. Talk to your parents and find out why they disagree __________you. Part of growing up is ___________________(学会忍受) these kinds of _____________(disagree), and learning to understand_________________________________(别人看待事物的方式) ________________ a little hard work, you can learn to ________________________（更好与你的父母交流）. disagreements another person’s way of looking at things With communicate better with your parents Finally satisfactory with learning to live with learning to stand 1.communicate with 2. have trouble doing 3. harmony 4. harmonious 5. some useful tips 6. make a list 7. disagree about sth 8. be acceptable to sb. 9. expect sb. to do sth. 10. unexpected 和…… 交流 做某事有困难 和谐；融洽 n. 和谐的；和睦的adj. 一些实用建议 列清单 就某事意见不一致 对某人来说可接受 期待某人做某事 出乎意料的 adj. 小考 11. go one’s way 12. be patient with sb. 13. get a satisfactory result 14. disagree with sb. 15. grow up 16. learn to live with these kinds of disagreements 17. understand another person’s way of looking at things 18. convenience 19. convenient 20. have trouble with sth. 如某人所愿；按某人想法来 对某人有耐心 得到满意的结果 不同意某人（的观点） 长大；成长 学会接受这类分歧 理解别人看待事物的方式 便利；方便 n 方便的；便利的adj. 在某事 / 某物上有困难 小考 I would listen carefully to my parents. When we have disagreements, I would try to understand their feelings and situation first and then express my ideas calmly. If they are busy, I will wait until they are convenient. If I am out of control, I will wait until I am calm enough to talk to them. 4. Which way would you choose to communicate better with your parents? Write 30 words or more. Open Question Post-reading 例文1 Before-writing 书面表达 你们学校的英文校报开展主题为“How can we get on well with our parents?”的征文大赛。请根据要点，写一篇短文参加此次征文比赛,内容包括： 1. 部分孩子与父母相处的现状; 2. 与父母和谐相处的建议： ①我们应该理解和尊重我们的父母；②……；③……； 3. 号召同学们参与构建幸福的家庭。 布局结构、时态、人称 第一段 第二段 第三段 部分孩子与父母相处的现状 介绍3条与父母相处的建议 号召同学们构建幸福家庭 一般现在时 1.说明相处现状：许多孩子跟父母在沟通方面有困难。 Presentation Nowadays, many children have problems with family life.______ 2.父母孩子关系的重要性及引出本文的目的： Para.1 have trouble doing sth. so+adj.+that It is important for us to... Let me tell you sth about it. Para.1 Nowadays, many children have problems with family life. Some children have trouble communicating with their parents. Let me tell you something about it. Presentation Para.2 介绍3条父母孩子相处的建议： (1)我们应该理解和尊重我们的父母; (2)......; (3)...... Brain storming 建议1 We should understand and respect our parents. Can you think of any other suggestions? 建议2：我们可以和父母分享快乐,还可以分担忧伤。 (share … with …) We can share something happy and unhappy with parents. When/If we have problems, we can tell our parents to help us. Can you think of any other suggestions? 建议3：当我们空闲时，我们应该帮着做一些家务。 (help with...) We’d better help with some housework when we are free. Our parents must be very tired after a day’s work. Para.2 First, it is important for us to understand and respect our parents. When we want to tell them our opinions, we’d better talk to them in a polite way. In addition, we can share something happy and unhappy with parents. What’s more, we’d better help with some housework when we are free. Our parents must be very tired after a day’s work. Presentation Para.3 号召同学们构建幸福家庭： If we do all the things above, we’ll have a family full of love and happiness. The more we do, the happier our family life will be. 范文 Nowadays, many children have problems with family life. Some children have trouble communicating with their parents. Let me tell you something about it. First, it is important for us to understand and respect our parents. When we want to tell them our opinions, we’d better talk to them in a polite way. In addition, we can share something happy and unhappy with parents. What’s more, we’d better help with some housework when we are free. Our parents must be very tired after a day’s work. All in all, the more we do, the happier our family life will be. Hello, everyone. It's my pleasure to share my family life here. There are five people in my family." I have got many things/ possessions: a big TV, a computer and a mobile phone. First,I often help with the housework. I wash the dishes and iron my shirts. Second,We like doing things together. We eat meals together every day, and my family always come to school events. What’s more,my parents set some rules for me. For example, unless I finish all my homework, I can't watch TV, and I can't go out with my friends either. I love all my family very much. We have a close relationship, and we always support each other. Thank you Blues 106138.055 $