内容正文:
Unit lighter is the best medicine. Do you often love with friends? Do you pickle at jokes? If you do, that is great. Because just as the same goes, love ter is the best medicine. People start laughing from a Young age, had around three months old, baby, learn to laugh. Even babies that cannot see or here can laugh. Laughter is a natural part of life. But why is that so important? First of all, laughter is good for our body. When we love somebody takes more oxygen. A report of our body needs oxygen to work well, loved, or also makes our body work out our heart, summer and even our shoulders work hard when we love but after like our muscles feel more relax, a good laugh can help you feel relax for up to forty five minutes over time. Doctor helps our body to get stronger, fight off more diseases, and even create special chemicals to help us feel less pain, love or also has many benefits for our mood. When we love, he makes us feel less stress or anxious, and things will not seem so bad. Laughing also causes our brain to release chemicals that make us feel calm and happy. Scientists even think that smiling often is enough to increase these chemicals in our brain. But IT is not always easy to laugh on our own. We are thirty times more likely to laugh when we are around others. According to some scientist, laughter control others that we want to be close to them. Monkeys clean one another, the first to show friendship. But people laugh so that others will know that they are being friendly. Some people even join loving groups, although they force themselves to laugh at first, how to hear other people laugh, their laughter becomes real. Before long, the whole group of people is laughing hard. The next time you feel unhappy, try thinking about something funny. Although you might not want to laugh when you are sad, doing so can make you feel Better.
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Lead in
Three simple strategies of managing our feeling:
1. Stop, think, act;
2. The anchor view — A: Acknowledge(承认), accept, and allow
(锚定视角) B: Bringing balance
C: Seeing what is needed
3. The child view — Freshly, curiosity(好奇), openness
Others: Journaling
Unit3: Growing Up
八下英语RJ
第4-6课时: Section B (1a- reading plus)
How can we stay positive?
Think and share
Will we stay positive all the time?
How can we stay positive?
Pre-reading
Read the idioms. Underline the ones that are negative.
Do you know other idioms that describe feelings?
1a
心旷神怡/心情沉重
郁郁寡欢/欢天喜地
愁眉苦脸/笑容满面
情绪低落/兴高采烈
1. a light heart / a heavy heart
2. feel blue / feel on top of the world
3. have a long face / be all smiles
4. in low spirits / in high spirits
have butterflies in one’s stomach (紧张不安);
see red (火冒三丈);
cry one’s eyes out(痛哭不止) ;
over the moon (欣喜若狂);
on cloud nine (极度快乐)
Pre-reading
Look at the picture and the title, can you guess what the passage is about?
It may be related to (与……有关) a basketball game.
You Can't Win Them All
Fast Reading
You Can't Win Them All
While-reading
Read the passage quickly and fill in the table:
1b
Who?
What?
Where?
Matt & Tom — They are best friends and teammates on the school basketball team.
Matt made a mistake at Saturday night’s basketball game and felt really sorry about that. Tom came to comfort him.
In the classroom
While-reading
1b
Fast Reading
He pushed the other team’s player by accident.
The referee gave the other team two free throws.
Read the story. What mistake did Matt make at the basketball game?
You Can't Win Them All
When the bell rang, Matt entered the classroom with a heavy heart. “Hey, Matt,” his best friend Tom greeted him. He and Tom were in the school’s basketball team. “Why the long face? Are you still feeling blue about Saturday night’s game?” Tom asked.
“Of course I am,” Matt said quietly. He didn’t dare to look at Tom as he spoke. “I’m really sorry about letting everybody down. The other team got those points because of me.”
“Don’t be too hard on yourself!” Tom said. “Although you pushed their player, it was just an accident. Everyone knows that!”
Tom was a good friend. But Matt knew the referee didn’t share Tom’s opinion. When the referee saw Matt push another player, he gave the other team two free throws. Matt was as shocked as anyone else when the accident happened, but it was too late. He couldn’t take it back.
While-reading
1b
Text analysis
You Can't Win Them All
ring的过去式
=got into 进入
是一个轻松幽默的常用口语,用来询问对方为何看起来闷闷不乐或沮丧。是“Why do you have the long face?”的省略句
v. 敢于 dare to do sth 敢做某事
let down 使失望 let sb down = disappoint sb 使某人失望
because of 因为后接名词、代词或动词-ing形式
n. 裁判
v. ①有同样的感情(或想法、经历等)
②分享;合用;分担 share... with... 与……分享……
罚球
take back 撤回;收回
as+形容词/副词原级+as... 像……一样…… 其否定结构为“not as/so... as...”,意为“不如……那样……”
“I guess we have to respect his decision,” Matt said after a while. “But we had a good chance to win until I made that mistake. Why wasn’t I more careful?”
“Listen, Matt,” said Tom, “try to look on the bright side. The other team is the best in our area, but our scores were really close. I’m proud of us, and I know our coach and everyone else in our school are as well.”
Matt felt a bit better. “Thanks,Tom. I guess it’s just hard to lose.”
“Hey, you can’t win them all,” said Tom. “It’s more important to learn from your mistakes so that you don’t repeat them in future. We’ll keep working together as a team. One for all, and all for one, right?”
“You’re right. If we pull together, we should win next time,” Matt smiled. He was lucky to have a friend like Tom!
While-reading
1b
Text analysis
You Can't Win Them All
n. 决定
have a chance to do sth 有机会做某事
n. 得分;比分 v. 得分
n. 教练
adj. 骄傲的;自豪的
adv. 其他的;别的通常修饰不定代词或疑问词,且放在其后
n. 有点儿;稍微 =a little 有点儿;稍微 常修饰形容词或副词原级或比较级
①(形容词)难以忍受的;困难的;硬的
②(副词)努力地 ◇ work hard 努力工作
从……中学习;向……学习
v. 重复
so that引导的目的状语从句,说明主句动作的目的
keep doing sth 继续做某事
=work together 齐心协力;通力合作
While-reading
1c
The title “You Can’t Win Them All” is an idiom (习语).
What does it mean in the context (上下文)?
It means that no one can win every competition or game, and it is important to accept failure peacefully and learn from it rather than feeling discouraged (心灰意冷的,泄气的).
While-reading
1c
Careful reading
Complete the problems and solutions.
PROBLEM(问题) SOLUTION(解决方案)
Matt felt sorry about letting his team down. Tom advised Matt not to be too
on himself.
Matt felt shocked when the referee gave the other team . Matt tried to the referee’s decision.
Matt felt bad about not being more
. Tom helped Matt to realize that everyone was still of their team.
Matt found it hard to . Tom told him that he couldn’t always win, and that they would keep working .
hard
respect
two free throws
proud
together
careful
lose
1d
Careful reading
Post-reading
Read again and answer the questions.
1. How did Tom know that Matt was sad when he saw him?
2. Why did Tom feel proud of their team even though they lost?
He found that Matt had a long face.
Because the other team was the best in the area, but their scores were very close.
1d
Careful reading
Post-reading
Read again and answer the questions.
3. What did Tom say to make Matt feel better?
4. What can you learn from Matt’s story?
Don’t be too hard on yourself and try to look on the bright side.
From the story we can learn that everyone may make mistakes, and more importantly, we should learn from mistakes and avoid repeating them in future.
Careful reading
1e
Post-reading
Replace the underlined words with the idioms from the story.
1. Edward noticed that his friend had a sad expression.
2. The musician apologized for disappointing everyone
when he fell sick and couldn’t attend the show.
3. When something goes wrong, it’s easy to get angry.
But if you think about the good things in that bad situation,
you’ll feel better.
4. Even if you try your best, you can’t always succeed or win.
5. When you work together as a group, you can achieve great things.
long face 愁眉苦脸
letting everybody down 让大家失望
Recognizing idioms
Idioms can make a text more powerful. The meaning of idioms differs from their literal meaning, but the words that make up these expressions provide valuable clues.
识别习语
习语可以使文本更具说服力。成语的意义与其字面意义不同,但构成这些表达的词语提供了宝贵的线索。
look on the bright side 试着从好的方面想
you can’t win them all 你不可能一帆风顺
pull together 齐心协力;通力合作
1f
Post-reading
Role-play a conversation between Matt and his coach.
Pair Work
Imagine you were Matt or the basketball team’s coach, what would you like to say to each other?
Useful sentences
A: I’m sorry I made a mistake on
Saturday, Coach.
B: It’s OK. I was disappointed, but
I know you didn’t mean to do it.
A: …
Tip: Be positive in content.
内容要积极向上
1f
Role-play a conversation between Matt and his coach.
Pair Work
For example
I’m sorry I made a mistake on Saturday, Coach.
It’s OK. I was disappointed, but I know you didn’t mean to do it.
I could just kick myself for causing the team to lose.
Don’t be too hard on yourself. Learn from the mistakes so that you avoid repeating them in future. If we pull together, we’ll win next time.
基础巩固
Exercises
I. 将左侧情绪短语与右侧的释义连线
1.be all smiles A. 懊悔不已
2. in low spirits B. 保持乐观
3. kick oneself C. 笑容满面
4.look on the bright side D. 情绪低落
II. 单句语法填空
1. The referee's (decide) made the crowd angry.
2. Though tired, the volunteers (pull) together to help the victims.
3. Lucy's mother has been proud her since she started helping
with housework.
4. the maths problem is difficult, I will try my best to work it out.
5. Can you think of a good (solve) to deal with the traffic problem
near our school?
decision
pulled
of
Though/Although
solution
( )1. After the team lost, the coach said," ! We'll do better next time."
A. Kick yourselves B. Look on the bright side C. Shut away
( )2. The players after their hard work paid off with a victory.
A. felt blue B. let down C. felt on top of the world
( )3. "Don't your teammates when they need you," the captain warned.
A. be hard on B.let down C.take back
( )4. The final of the basketball game was 82:78. Our class won!
A. score B.solution C.pride D.ring
( )5. It was hot in the classroom two of the windows at the back
had been opened.
A. because B.so C.even though D. as soon as
III. 单项选择
基础巩固
B
C
B
A
C
Exercises
Practise
1f
Role-play a conversation between Matt and his coach.
Pair Work
Think of a time when a friend helped you feel better after a failure.
How did they do it?
When I failed a math test, my friend helped me go over the mistakes. He told me that we could learn from mistakes and avoid repeating them in future. He comforted me and made me feel better.
Vocabulary in use
2a
Put the words in the box into the correct groups.
joyful angry shocked stressed worried hurtful thankful
upset excited lonely afraid shy proud calm
Positive Negative
joyful
angry
shocked
stressed
worried
hurtful
thankful
upset
excited
lonely
afraid
shy
proud
calm
Vocabulary in use
2b
Complete the sentences with the correct forms of the words in brackets.
1. A: What should I do if I feel after moving to a new city?
B: Try to make new friends. A sense of belonging can help you to fight the feeling
of . (lonely)
2. A: Did you hear the news? I was to hear about the fight yesterday.
B: It was a to me too. We should say no to bullying. (shock)
3. A: I’m sorry I shouted at you just now. I was just feeling .
B: I know you didn’t mean to do that. People can behave differently under
. (stress)
4. A: I’m really that I’ll be late for the physics class.
I lay awake most of the night because my neighbour’s baby was crying.
I woke up late this morning and missed the bus.
B: Don’t . Ms Wood will understand if you tell her what happened. (worry)
lonely
loneliness
shocked
shock
一种……的感觉
shout at sb(多因为生气、愤怒)冲某人喊叫
stressed
stress
n. 物理;物理学
worried
worry
Vocabulary in use
2c
Replace the underlined words with the correct forms of the words in the box.
decision hurt anger relaxed bit negative
Although it is normal to get mad at others from time to time, we should always try our best to control our anger instead of expressing it in bad ways. When we’re mad, we might shout at other people or say mean things to them. After all, anger is like a fire. It can make you hurt others or yourself! Luckily, there are a few simple things you can do to stay calm. For example, try taking a deep breath. That gives you an opportunity to calm down and become a little less angry. You can also take a walk, go for a run, or write about your feelings. Getting angry is normal, but what you choose to do with your anger is up to you!
Mad
Angry
Stressed
Not OK
Calm
be/get mad at/with sb 生某人的气
=once in a while 不时;偶尔
negative
angry
hurtful
relaxed
take a deep breath 深呼吸
bit
go for a/an+名词外出进行某项休闲或锻炼活动
decide
Homework
Review the language points in this lesson.
Read the passage fluently and try to retell it by yourself.
Do some related exercises.
Let's review
Recall and answer the questions.
What problems did Matt meet at the basketball game?
How did Tom help Matt stay positive?
Pre-writing
Read the text in 3a and answer the questions.
(1) What type is the text?
(2) Who wrote the letter?
(3) What is the letter about?
It’s a letter.
Kelly Smith.
Kelly Smith showed thanks to Mrs Thompson.
While-reading
Text analysis
Dear Mrs Thompson,
I want to thank you for being my teacher. You took the time to help me, although you were so busy.
Your classes always made me happy. l used to think that science was boring and difficult, and I did badly in class. I never liked science until took your class. You encouraged me and made science lessons fun, and slowly, I grew more confident.
I also want to thank you for being kind to me. You helped me a lot, especially after my grandmother passed away. I couldn’t talk about my feelings to anybody until you sat with me during lunch that day. You listened to me and talked with me so that I felt much better. That day will always remain in my mind. Thank you so much for being not only my teacher but also my friend.
Sincerely,
Kelly Smith
thank sb for (doing) sth
因(做)某事感谢某人
grow+形容词变得……
pass away 去世(委婉说法)
v. 继续存在;保持不变
remain in one’s mind 留在某人脑海里;铭记在心
不但……而且……
While-reading
Careful reading
Read Kelly’s thank-you letter to her teacher. Why is Kelly thankful?
3a
Mrs Thompson took time to help her.
Mrs Thompson encouraged her and made science lessons fun, which helped her grow more confident in the subject.
Mrs Thompson was kind to her—especially after her grandmother passed away—by listening to her and talking with her.
Mrs Thompson was not only a good teacher but also a friend to her.
Pre-writing
Read again and analyze how Kelly wrote the thank-you letter.
Greeting
Signature
Beginning
(Introduction)
Body
(Specific examples)
Closing
(Thanks again)
注意书信书写格式
称呼签名全部顶格写。
正文可以顶格写,也可以开头空四个字母。
正文是信件的主体,要求中心明确、层次清晰。
Pre-writing
Summarize what can be mentioned when writing a thank-you letter.
While-writing
3b
Who would you like to thank the most? Make notes.
My mum
I didn’t know how to ride a bike by myself.
I failed English test and felt sad.
She spent time teaching me.
She helped me find the mistakes and encouraged me.
While-writing
3c
Write your own thank-you letter. You can use your notes in 3b and the expressions below to help you.
Thank you for helping me to…
Thank you very much for your…
On that day, I…, and you helped me to…
I am very thankful because…
I didn’t/couldn’t…, but you…
When I…, you were there to…
While-writing
Expansion
Beginning Express your thanks and explain the reason
I am writing to express my sincere thanks for...
I would like to express my deepest thanks to you for…
I am writing this letter to show/express my thanks to…
Body Specific examples about how he/ she helped you
It was nice/kind/thoughtful of you to…
Without your help, I couldn’t…
I once wanted to give up..., but your support inspired me to keep trying.
You took a walk with me around the school, listening patiently as I shared my sadness about the failure.
Closing Show thanks again
Thanks again for your help.
Because of you, I no longer feel sad about the failure.
Thanks to your help, I am now confident enough to...
Thank you so much for being such a great friend.
For example
While-writing
Dear Mum,
I want to thank you more than words can say.
I didn’t know how to make ride a bike before, but you spent hours teaching me step by step. I once failed the English test and felt so sad, and you helped me to find my mistakes patiently. When I cried at night because of stress, you were there to hold me and encouraged me. Thank you for helping me to be brave and never give up.
I am very thankful because you always understand me and give me warm support. Thank you so much for being not only my mother but also my best friend. I love you forever.
Yours sincerely,
Li Hua
Post-writing
Share and evaluate
Category (类别) Criteria (标准)
Content & Theme 1. Clearly state who to thank and specific reasons
2. Include true, touching stories between you and the person.
3. Convey (表达) sincere gratitude
Structure & Organization 1. Follow the letter format: greeting, beginning, body, closing, signature
2. Logical flow: introduction → specific stories → concluding thanks
3. Natural transitions between paragraphs
Language Expression 1. Use the provided expressions appropriately (e.g. Thank you for
helping me to…, When I…, you were there to…)
2. Smooth sentences with no grammar/spelling errors
3. Accurate and vivid words.
Tone & Sincerity 1. Warm and genuine tone (真诚的语气)
2. Show personal feelings rather than being formal or empty
基础巩固
Exercises
( )1. --- I am very for all your help. --- You're welcome.
A. thankful B. joyful C. negative D. normal
( )2. When I saw my son fighting with others, I him.
A. shouted at B. looked at C. laughed at D. proud of
( )3. You should learn to control your feelings. Don't be easily.
A.awake B.mad C.mean D.deep
( )4. The doctor told him to before he took the medicine.
A. take a deep breath B. pass away C. go through D. stand out
( )5. She is not only good at English good at physics.
A.and B.or C. but also D. as well
I. 单项选择
A
A
A
B
C
1. We should teach children not to others at school.
2. You should well in public places.
3. She sees problems from others.
4. I still miss my old friends though we haven't seen
each other for a long time.
5. There isn't in the classroom.
Everyone is on the playground.
different from time to time bully behaviour anybody
lI. 从方框中选择词汇并用其适当形式填空
bully
基础巩固
Exercises
behave
differently
from time to time
anybody
Homework
Revise your draft and hand in your letter next time.
Read another passage about thanking people who helped you, and collect useful expressions from it.
Fun time
Project
4a
Think about a problem that makes you worried or upset.
Write it on a piece of paper. Do not include your name.
Share and solve problems
Some teenage problems
too much stress
poor relationships
worries about the future
school bullying 校园霸凌
Tip: 保护好个人隐私
Project
4b
Collect all the pieces of paper and put them in a box.
Project
4c
Work in groups. Take one piece of paper from the box each time.
Discuss the problem and provide your suggestions.
I find it hard to make friends. I'm afraid to talk to others,
although I want to get to know them better.
Tip: 建议要具有合理性和可实施性
Project
4d
Present the problem and your suggestions to the class.
The problem our group received is: “l find it hard to make
friends.” Here are some of our suggestions for this friend.
First, you can join a sports club. lf you are afraid to talk to
others, you could focus on the sport first. You can work
together with a team and get to know more people later.
Second, you could ...
Tip: 使用 first, second… 等连接词会使我们的语言更具条理性
Reflecting
1. Can you talk about positive and negative emotions?
2. Can you understand and use clauses with although, until, and so that?
3. What support or advice can you give others when they are angry,
upset, or stressed?
4. What can you do to manage your own emotions and stay positive?
A problem shared is a problem halved.
心事有人知,重担减半挑。
Reading Plus
Laughter Is the Best Medicine
Do you often laugh with friends? Do you giggle at jokes? If you do, that is great, because just as the saying goes: Laughter is the best medicine!
People start laughing from a young age. At around three months old, babies learn to laugh. Even babies that cannot see or hear can laugh. Laughter is a natural part of life! But why is it so important?
First of all, laughter is good for our body. When we laugh, our body takes in more oxygen. Every part of our body needs oxygen to work well. Laughter also makes our body work out. Our heart, stomach, and even our shoulders work hard when we laugh! But after we laugh, our muscles feel more relaxed. A good laugh can help you feel relaxed for up to 45 minutes. Over time, laughter helps our body to get stronger, fight off more diseases, and even create special chemicals to help us feel less pain!
Laughter also has many benefits for our mood. When we laugh, it makes us feel less stressed or anxious, and things will not seem so bad. Laughing also causes our brain to release chemicals that make us feel calm and happy. Scientists even think that smiling often is enough to increase these chemicals in our brain.
But it is not always easy to laugh on our own. We are 30 times more likely to laugh when we are around others. According to some scientists, laughter can show others that we want to be close to them. Monkeys clean one another’s fur to show friendship. But people laugh so that others will know that they are being friendly.
Some people even join laughing groups. Although they force themselves to laugh at first, after hearing other people laugh, their laughter becomes real! Before long, the whole group of people is laughing hard.
The next time you feel unhappy, try thinking about something funny. Although you might not want to laugh when you are sad, doing so can make you feel better!
Reading Plus
Laughter Is the Best Medicine
Do you often laugh with friends? Do you giggle at jokes? If you do, that is great, because just as the saying goes: Laughter is the best medicine!
People start laughing from a young age. At around three months old, babies learn to laugh. Even babies that cannot see or hear can laugh. Laughter is a natural part of life! But why is it so important?
First of all, laughter is good for our body. When we laugh, our body takes in more oxygen. Every part of our body needs oxygen to work well. Laughter also makes our body work out. Our heart, stomach, and even our shoulders work hard when we laugh! But after we laugh, our muscles feel more relaxed. A good laugh can help you feel relaxed for up to 45 minutes. Over time, laughter helps our body to get stronger, fight off more diseases, and even create special chemicals to help us feel less pain!
Reading Plus
Text analysis
n. 笑;笑声
正如俗话所说
=about 大约
that引导的定语从句,修饰babies
v. 咯咯地笑;傻笑 giggle at/about sb/sth 对着某人/某物咯咯笑
首先
take in 吸入
n. 氧;氧气
锻炼
随着时间的推移
抵抗;击退
n. 化学制品;化学品
Laughter also has many benefits for our mood. When we laugh, it makes us feel less stressed or anxious, and things will not seem so bad. Laughing also causes our brain to release chemicals that make us feel calm and happy. Scientists even think that smiling often is enough to increase these chemicals in our brain.
But it is not always easy to laugh on our own. We are 30 times more likely to laugh when we are around others. According to some scientists, laughter can show others that we want to be close to them. Monkeys clean one another’s fur to show friendship. But people laugh so that others will know that they are being friendly.
Some people even join laughing groups. Although they force themselves to laugh at first, after hearing other people laugh, their laughter becomes real! Before long, the whole group of people is laughing hard.
The next time you feel unhappy, try thinking about something funny. Although you might not want to laugh when you are sad, doing so can make you feel better!
Reading Plus
Text analysis
n.情绪;心情
adj.焦虑不安;心力交瘁
adj.焦虑;忧虑;担心
v.释放;放出
that引导的定语从句,修饰chemicals
v.使增长,增多;增加
on one’s own 独自地 =by oneself
adj.可能的 be likely to do sth 可能做某事
根据;依照
be/get close to 靠近;接近
=each other 互相;彼此
以便;为了 引导目的状语从句
force sb to do sth 强迫某人做某事
起初;最初
不久;很快
try doing sth 试着做某事 拓展:try to do sth 尽力/设法做某事
Reading Plus
Read the text and complete the mind map.
1
Body
Mood
Benefits
of
Laughter
feel less stressed
or
4
get stronger, fight off more
, and create chemicals to reduce over time
3
Our heart,
, and
get a
workout.
Our muscles
become
after we laugh.
2
take in more
to help it work well
1
feel calm and
because of the chemicals our releases
5
oxygen
stomach
shoulders
more relaxed
diseases
pain
anxious
happy
brain
Reading Plus
2
Discuss the questions.
1. What do you think is the most important benefit of laughter?
2. What makes you laugh? Share your experiences.
I think the most important benefit is that it reduces stress and makes us feel happy and relaxed.
Watching funny videos makes me laugh.
When I feel sad or stressed,
I often watch funny videos, which can make me feel better.
Homework
Share your problems with your friends and find solutions together.
Review the language points in this unit.
Do some related exercises.
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$Emotion management isn't about suppressing your feelings, rather, that involves skillfully recognizing and utilizing our emotions, which strengths are resilience and shield us from undesirable situations. The first step is to pinpoint any negative emotions we might be experiencing. By identifying and labelling these emotions, we become less acceptable to being overwhelmed by external chAllenges, thereby conserving our mental energy. Now we're going to learn how to manage our feelings using three simple strategies. Whether you're feeling angry, disappointed or hurt. These tools can help you find peace and understanding. Strategy one, stop, think, act. Let's assume a time when you got angry in a game because you believe the game wasn't being played fairly. First stop. You take a pause and take a breath since there is no chance of demonstrating good emotional control if we're acting on impulse. 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Next you think about why IT hurt you and what your friends motivation is for saying those comments. And then you act by expressing your feelings to your friend and expLoring deeper conversations. Strategy to the anchor view. IT is about finding stability in the storm of our emotions, much like grabbing hold of an anchor turbulent seas. Using the easy to remember acronym abc, a is for acknowledge, except and allow. B means bringing baLance into your brain and see stands for seeing what is needed. Let's use the same examples. Imagine you are feeling unfairness in your game, and your surroundings echo a stormy ocean. First, you start by acknowledging your feelings, giving yourself permission to feel upset, which reduces the intensity of your emotions. Then you focus your breath to bring baLance. You breathe deep and even smoothing the rough waves of your anger. Having calm your mind, you can now see what needs to be done. You might choose to discuss the game rules calmly with your friends to promote fairness and understanding. Another example is when you feel disappointed with your low test score, you are surrounded by stormy seas that symbolize your negative emotions. First, you admit your disappointment and take a moment to anchor yourself. You can say quietly to yourself. I noticed that i'm feeling really let down by this score. This helps you not to get overwhelmed by emotions. Next, you breathe deeply, each in hail and x hail, slow and steady, to bring baLance to yourself in the emotional storm. Finally, with a clear remind, you see your options more clearly. You might decide to ask for feedback and dedicate more time to study, turning your disappointment into a plan for improvement. In the final example, assume you feel upset by your friend's comments, just like in a stormy sea setting, you first anchor yourself by acknowledging the pain you might say to yourself. I noticed that i'm really hurt by what was said. This is tough for me. Then you bring baLance by focusing on your breathing, each breath helping to sue the your nervous system, easing you out of survival mode, and with a steady your mind, you can see your needs more clearly. You decide a Better action is to express how you feel to your friend, Fostering understanding and healing strategy. Three, the child view. Imagine how a child, these things freshly with curiosity and openness. This approaches a great practice for emotions that aren't too intense, like daily stress, frustration or irritation. IT involves three key steps, stop, drop and get curious, let's say, in a scenario that you feel a rush of emotions as your friends play without you, first you stop. You pause, right where you are acknowledging the storm of feelings brewing inside you. Then you drop your awareness from your busy mind down into your body. You take a moment to explore what's happening inside. You notice your heart racing and your hands clenching. You can explore these physical expressions of your emotions, feeling how they pulse through your body. Finally, you get curious about your emotions. What are they trying to tell you? You can imagine your nervous system as a guardian, maybe gearing up to protect you. You might try to embrace your emotions, to feel how these emotions want you to respond, and you might be able to connect to yourself and others more deeply. Besides these three strategies, journ is also in evidence based way to improve our emotion management capability. In the long run, you can check out more detailed methods and their rational in the journal section on our website. Emotion management is a profound journey, not just a destination. It's about engaging with our feelings to cultivate resilience and well being, embrace your feelings, explore their depth and emerge stronger. Remember to make up your future emotion management plan and set up the notification for your assessment. See you in the next video.