内容正文:
What makes you upset?
Section A(2a-2d)
1. 能预测听力内容,捕捉关键细节,概述对话大意。
2. 积累并运用道歉、原谅、宽慰、承诺等情绪表达,分享自身经历与感受。
3. 发现他人闪光点,勇于认错、宽容待人,认识到沟通化解矛盾的重要性。
Learning objectives
1.forgive /fəˈɡɪv/ v. (forgave /fəˈɡeɪv/ forgiven /fəˈɡɪvn/) 原谅;宽恕
2.fault /fɔːlt/ n. 过错;责任
3.present /ˈpreznt/ n. 礼物
8. pick up (the phone) 接电话
9.clear the air 消除隔阂,把事情说开0. mean a lot to sb. 对某人意义重大
11. forgive sb. 原谅某人
12.lose sb. 失去某人(的友谊)
13.be more careful (in future) (今后)更加小心
14. be upset about sth. 对某事感到难过/生气
15.It’s one’s fault. 是某人的错。
16.I didn’t mean it. 我不是故意的。
17. be angry about sth. 因某事生气
18. feel the same (as sb.) 和某人同感
Review and Preview-Words and phrases
速记
Do you remember what happened between Peter and Harry?
How did Peter feel and what would he do?
Look and say
You are going to hear a conversation between Peter and Harry. Tick the sentences each person might say.
2a
What might they say? Peter Harry
I'm sorry.
I feel bad about it.
Don't worry about it.
I'll be more careful in future.
I forgive you.
It was my fault.
I didn't mean to do it.
Tips:
速读句子,理解句意;
回顾矛盾发生的原因,并思考他们之间可能发生的对话;
带着预测去听录音,看看和真实对话是否一致。
Listen to the conversation. Circle T for true or F for false.
2b
1. Harry called Peter first to say sorry.
2. Harry didn't care about the fight.
3. Peter and Harry said sorry to each other.
4. Peter got the guitar on his eighth birthday.
5. Both Peter and Harry thought their friendship was important.
True: Peter called Harry first.
True: Harry cares about the fight.
T
T
T
T
T
F
F
F
F
F
Listen again. Complete the summary of the conversation.
2c
Peter accepted Ella's suggestion and called Harry so that he could say sorry. Harry also felt ______ about the fight and wanted to ______ to Peter so that they could clear the air. Peter told Harry the guitar was a birthday present from his __________, and it meant a lot to him. After saying sorry, Harry told Peter he would be more __________ in future.
bad
talk
grandfather
careful
Listen again and fill in the blanks.
Peter: Hi, Harry. Thanks for ___________. I wanted to call earlier, but I didn't know what to say until I spoke to Ella.
Harry: Hi, yeah, I feel bad about it too. We should talk so that we can ___________.
Peter: Listen, I'm sorry I hurt you. I ___________ it. I was just angry about that mark on the guitar.
Harry: No, I'm sorry. It was ________.
Peter: That guitar was a birthday present from my grandfather when I was eight. He's not around anymore. Although it's old, it ________________.
Harry: I didn't know that. I'm sorry.
Peter: It's OK. I _______ you. You're my best friend, and I don't want to lose you.
Harry: I ____________. I'm really sorry. I'll be more careful in future.
picking up
clear the air
didn't mean
my fault
means a lot to me
forgive
feel the same
接电话
尽释前嫌
不是故意的
Peter: Hi, Harry. Thanks for picking up. I wanted to call earlier, but I didn’t know what to say until I spoke to Ella.
Harry: Hi, yeah, I feel bad about it too. We should talk so that we can clear the air.
Peter: Listen, I’m sorry I hurt you. I didn’t mean it. I was just angry about that mark on the guitar.
Harry: No, I’m sorry. It was my fault.
Read the conversation and learn key points.
so that :为了、以便、目的是……
结构:主句 + so that + 句子(目的)
我不是故意的。
(用于道歉时解释自己并非有意为之。)
是我的错。
(主动承担责任的常用表达)
接听电话
not... until... 直到…… 才……
Peter: That guitar was a birthday present from my grandfather when I was eight. He’s not around anymore. Although it’s old, it means a lot to me.
Harry: I didn’t know that. I’m sorry.
Peter: It’s OK. I forgive you. You’re my best friend, and I don’t want to lose you.
Harry: I feel the same. I’m really sorry. I’ll be more careful in future.
around:在身边、在附近、在世 not... anymore: 不再……
结合语境,整句意思:他已经不在人世了。
表示:说话之前不知道,现在知道了。
(听到新信息、意外的事时使用,表达惊讶、抱歉、理解)
表达原谅
Although...,... 虽然……,但是……
引导让步状语从句
注意 although 与 but 不能同时使用。
表达重视关系
will be + 形容词比较级:将会更……
(表示将来会做出改变或改进。)
拓展:in future = from now on 从今以后
What should we do if we have a fight with a friend?
have a fight with friends
talk face to face
prepare a gift
…
send a message
write a note
Summary
道歉与和解常用表达
主动道歉 I’m sorry I hurt you. It was my fault.
表达无意 I didn’t mean it.
表达原谅 It’s OK. I forgive you.
表达重视关系 You’re my best friend, and I don’t want to lose you.
承诺改进 I’ll be more careful in future.
2d
Tick the situations you have experienced before. You can also choose something else. Talk to a partner about them.
□ argued with a friend
□ lost something special
□ lost a game or match
□ talked to a stranger
□ hurt someone you were close to
□ ___________________
阅读表格中的5个选项,勾选自己真实经历过的情况(可多选)。
若选项中没有你的经历,在空白处 ______ 填写具体内容(如:forgot a friend’s birthday / broke my mom’s cup)。
Tick the situations you have experienced before. You can also choose something else. Talk to a partner about them.
A: I once lost a watch my dad gave me.
B: How did that make you feel?
A: I was very upset, and I was afraid to
tell my dad about it too.
B: Did you find the watch in the end?
A: No, I didn't.
B: That's too bad!
How did that make you feel?
I once lost an important basketball game.
I was upset at first, but …
A: I once lost a watch my dad gave me.
B: How did that make you feel?
A: I was very upset, and I was afraid to
tell my dad about it too.
B: Did you find the watch in the end?
A: No, I didn't.
B: That's too bad!
☐ argued with a friend
☐ lost something special
☐ lost a game or match
☐ talked to a stranger
☐ hurt someone you were close to
☐ __________________________
I.用方框中所给单词的适当形式填空。
upset control lonely fault present
1.Emma was very happy because she got a lot of ________ during
her birthday.
2.When my favourite athlete won the match,I could hardly _______ my
feeling of excitement.
3.It is not your _____, don’t worry about it.
4.Joining a club or a team can help you feel less _______ because you
can make many friends there.
5.Anna failed the politics exam. She was a little ______.
presents
control
fault
lonely
upset
II.根据汉语意思完成句子,每空一词。
1.我们无法决定生活中会发生什么,但我们可以决定如何处理它。
We can’t decide what will happen in our lives,but we can decide _____
___ _____ _____ it.
how
to
deal
with
2. 在这次经历后,我今后不会再犯这样的错误了。
After this experience,I won’t make such a mistake ___ _______.
in
future
3.我认为这是一个帮助们俩尽释前嫌的好机会。
I think this is a good chance to help you two ______ ____ _____
____.
clear
the
air
4.昨天医生建议我多锻炼来保持健康。
The doctor ________ ____ ___ exercise more to keep fit yesterday.
advised
me
to
5.爸爸让我把重要的事情写下来以便我不会忘记。
Dad asked me to write down important things ____ _____ I would not
forget them.
so
that
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