Unit 11 Conflict and Compromise Lesson 2 Dealing with Conflict 课件-2024-2025学年高中英语北师大版（2019）选择性必修第四册

nullUNIT 11 UNIT 11 CONFLICT AND COMPROMISE LESSON 2 DEALING WITH CONFLICT 2025/2/26 3 To listen and talk about conflicts and ways of dealing with them To listen for understanding and detail To practise giving suggestions To talk about a personal conflict Brainstorm ways you use to resolve conflict in daily life. 5 to respond to anger with more anger to do nothing or try to escape to repeat what you said in a different way to explain clearly what you want to negotiate with the other person to solve the problem yourself to ask for help from somebody outside the situation to put forward solutions Look at the different ways of dealing with conflict. Discuss with your partner which ways you would use to resolve conflict ( ), and which you wouldn’t use ( ). Listen to a radio programme about dealing with conflict. What are the three common ways to deal with conflict? Complete the first column of the table. What are the three common ways? To respond to anger with more anger Doing nothing To ask for help from somebody outside the situation What does each way mean? Why isn’t it helpful? This means you ______ more negatively and _________ to a situation of _________. The situation can _________ or even lead to __________. react violently conflict get worse violence Listen again. Complete the rest of the information in Activity 2. Then, share with your partner what you have learnt about the three common ways to deal with conflict. To respond to anger with more anger What does each way mean? Why isn’t it helpful? The person says nothing and tries to _____________ the situation. This does not __________________. The person who withdraws feels _____________________________________________________________. Holding your feelings inside can be _________________. escape or ignore solve any problems more and more angry with the other person very unhealthy Doing nothing What does each way mean? Why isn’t it helpful? You ___________ somebody outside the situation, and they ___________________ __________. However, people outside the situation __________________________. They are usually not in _____________ to make the right judgment. call on decide what should happen may not know the whole story the position To ask for help from somebody outside the situation Share with your partner what you have learnt about the three common ways to deal with conflict. According to Dr. Maguire, there are three common ways to deal with conflict. The first one is… The second one is… The third one is … … 1) What are the two conflicts the interviewer mentions? 2) What is the worst way of dealing with conflict according to Dr. Maguire? 3) What is the best way recommended? Neighbours complain of extremely loud music until very late at night and parents become really angry with their children for spending too much time online. Try to negotiate with the other person. Respond to anger with more anger. Listen again. Answer the questions. Read each situation and how the conflicts are resolved. Analyse their possible consequences. Give comments or recommendations on how to deal with each situation. a Amy did not do well in her maths exam, and her mother was very angry with her as a result. Amy argued that one exam would not mean total failure, but her mother did not agree. Amy’s way to deal with the problem was refusing to talk to her mother for three days. Not talking to her mother for three days would make both Amy and her mother feel very upset. It would be better if Amy and her mother went to the maths teacher and discuss Amy’s problems and find a solution. b Bob accidentally stamped on a man’s foot on the bus. The man was very angry and swore at Bob. Bob was angry, too. He yelled and swore back at the man. This situation could have led on to a more serious argument and eventually get police involved in. the man could have complained and Bob could have said sorry right away. c Daisy though Cathy had reported her to the teacher, even though Cathy had not. Daisy was so angry that she wouldn’t allow Cathy to tell her side of the story. Therefore, Cathy asked her friend Fiona to talk to Daisy on her behalf. Daisy’s stubborn behaviour could have ended her friendship with Cathy. Daisy should have been more open to Cathy’s side of the story. 1. What do you think people should do to deal with the conflict properly? 2. Predict what suggestions the expert will give to deal with conflict properly. Listen to Dr. Maguire talking about what we should do to deal with conflict. Complete his suggestions. First, ________________________________________________ ______________________. Next, _______________________________________________. Then, _______________________________________________. You should __________________________________________ ____________. Also, ________________________________________________. you should not act as if you’re 100% right and they are 100% wrong you should try to explain clearly what you want you put forward solutions FOCUS ON FUNCTION: GIVING SUGGESTIONS speak clearly and firmly, but you should never shout be careful of your body language 18 Listen and imitate. Complete the Talk Builder. it’s always better should not should the best thing should never try to Giving Suggestions 1 You ________ not act as if you’re 100% right and they are 100% wrong. 2 You ________ try to explain clearly what you want. 3 You _________ respond in the same way. should should shouldn’t it’s always better should not should the best thing should never try to Giving Suggestions 4 ______________ is to repeat what you said in a different way. 5 You ____________ speak clearly and firmly, but you _____________ shout. 6 _____________ relax, and _________________ never to stand too close to the other person. The best thing should should never Try to it’s always better Think about a conflict you have experienced. Share your experience in pairs and give each other suggestions. 1. to put forward solutions 提出解决方案 put forward: to suggest something for discussion 提出 to move something to an earlier time or date将……提前 to move the hands of a clock to the correct later time 向前拨，拨快（时钟指针） to suggest yourself/somebody as a candidate for a job or position 推荐 e.g. He also put forward some suggestions for the experiment teaching on the forum (论坛). They have apologized for putting forward the date of their wedding by one week. You’d better put your watch forward by ten minutes in order not to miss the bus to the clinic (诊所). Can I put you/your name forward for club secretary? put aside 节省；储蓄；储存；留出；不理睬 put away 放好；积蓄 put down 记下；放下；镇压 put off 延期；推迟 put on 穿上；上演 put out 扑灭；生产 put up with 容忍；忍受 put through 接通电话；完成；使经受 【语境应用】用put的相关短语的适当形式填空。 The kitchen caught fire. Tom suggested that they should call firefighters to help __________ the fire. However, his mother, who thought the fire is not that big, ___________ a solution: to ____________ the fire by themselves. Therefore, they __________ their fire-protection suits, __________ a wet quilt and covered the fire. To their surprise, some firemen appeared at their house. A neighbor couldn’t __________ the heavy smoke and telephoned 119. put out put forward put off put on put up put up with 2. The person who withdraws feels more and more angry with the other person. 退缩的那个人对另一个人感到越来越生气。 withdraw vi. & vt. to stop taking part in an activity or being a member of an organization; (使)退出(活动、组织等) to stop giving support or money to someone or something 取消，不再给予，停止提供 to take money out of a bank account 提，取(银行账户中的款) withdrawal n. 收回；撤退；提款 e.g. In 2016 Britain voted to withdraw from the EU. He withdrew his support for our campaign. He had withdrawn all the money from their joint account. Government troops were forced to withdraw. to move back or away from a place or situation; to make somebody/something do this (使)撤回，撤离 【语境应用】单句语法填空。 1) If you experience any unusual symptoms after __________ (withdraw) of the treatment, contact your doctor. 2) His __________ (withdraw) from the election attracted people’s great attention. 3) Both powers withdrew their forces __________ the region. 4) The horse has been withdrawn __________ the race. withdrawal withdrawal from from 3. Daisy thought Cathy had reported her to the teacher, even though Cathy had not. Daisy认为Cathy已经向老师举报了她，尽管Cathy没有。 even though = even if 虽然，即使，引导让步状语从句 e.g. Even though you lost the match eventually, you shouldn’t lose heart. 【注意】 在含有even though, even if引导的让步状语从句的复合句中，如果主句用一般将来时，从句则用一般现在时表将来。 【比较】 as though (=as if) “好像，仿佛”，引导表语从句或方式状语从句。当说话人认为所说的情况是事实时，用陈述语气；当说话人认为所说的情况可能不是事实时，则用虚拟语气。 e.g. Even though it snows tomorrow, we will go on with the roadworks. 【语境应用】根据汉语意思完成句子。 1) _____________ (尽管) the forest park is far away, a lot of tourists visit it every year. 2) Allow children the space to voice their opinions, _____________ (即使) they are different from your own. 3) The foreigner talks about Chinese culture _____________ (好像) he were more familiar with it than his own. Even though/ if even if/ though as if/ though 4. Daisy was so angry that she wouldn’t allow Cathy to tell her side of the story. Daisy非常生气，她不让Cathy说出她的说法。 so… that… 如此……以至于……，that引导结果状语从句。 e.g. His handwriting is so random that it is difficult for the teacher to tell. (1) so…that…句型的常见形式 so+ adj./ adv. + that… so + adj. +a (n) + n. (可数名词单数) + that… so + many/ few + n. (不可数名词)+ that… (2) such… that… 也可表示“如此……以至于……” such + a(n) + adj. + n. (可数名词单数) + that… such + adj. + n. (不可数名词/ 可数名词复数) + that… (3) 当so… / such…放在句首时，主句要用部分倒装。 e.g. We did so well that we were invited to share our idea and theory with all the students of our school. =So well did we do that we were invited to share our idea and theory with all the students of our school. 【语境应用】一句两译。 1) 他是个如此好的男孩，以至于他们都想收养他。 A: __________________ that they all want to adopt him. B: __________________ that they all want to adopt him. 2) 结果，孩子们变得非常依赖他们的父母，没有独立的想法或创意。 A: As a consequence, ______________________________________ that they have no independent thoughts or creative ideas. B: As a consequence, _______________________________________ that they have no independent thoughts or creative ideas. He is such a good boy Such a good boy is he children become so reliant on their parents so reliant on their parents do children become 3) 那时，我非常喜欢篮球，经常整天打球。 A: At that time I loved basketball ____________ I frequently played all day long. B: At that time ___________ did I love basketball ________ I frequently played all day long. 4) 现在郊区发展得如此之快，你完全想像不到它们明天会是什么样子。 A: The outskirts are developing ____________ you can never imagine what they will be like tomorrow. B: ____________ the outskirts developing __________ you can never imagine what they will be like tomorrow. so much that so much that so fast that So fast are that 5. You should speak clearly and firmly, but you shouldn’t shout. 你应该清晰坚定地说，但不应该喊叫。 firm n. 公司 adj. 坚固的；稳固的；强有力的；坚定的 be firm about… ……的想法很坚定 stand firm against 坚定地反对…… firmness n. 坚固；坚实；坚定；坚决 firmly adv. in a strong or definite way 坚定地，坚决地 e.g. The household firmly carried out this plan made by themselves. 【语境应用】单句语法填空。 1) He __________ (firm) believed that better service should be provided by the canteen. 2) He got encouragement from the words: The secret of success lies in the __________ (firm) of purpose. 3) He is firm __________ the function of the network. 4) We stand firm __________ the intervention from abroad. firmly firmness about against Write about a conflict you have experienced and how you dealt with it then. 142660.8 87589.305 $$null