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学耐回 学科网( ZXXR COM)-名校独家资料 独家授权,侵权必究! 天水市一中高二级20192020学年度第一学期期末考试 英语试题 (满分:100分时间:100分钟) 第I卷(选择题“共55分) 算一部分阅读理解代共两节,共35分) 12 第一节(共15小题每小题2分,共30分)vi 2,:m3“ Family fights are never pleasant. Whether you are dealing with a loud sister or a stubbom mom or dad, the situation can be bad. At least that's what we have learned to expect. What if it could be different? What if family fights and conflicts could be tumed into opportunities to become closer? What if problems could be solved with everyone walking away feeling more deeply cared for and loved? Family fighting is, on one level, about power. Someone is telling someone else what to do. In a short moment, emotions can be brought out and tie fight is on. You can go down that old road or you can try something different. In any fight, you have a' need to be listened to and understood. People raise their voices and shout at each other because they're not being listened to It's totally unconscious. You want your mom or dad to ten and understand. But you always seem to forget the person you're fighting with has the saime need " to be listened to. So if you can put aside your need for a few minutes, the situation will change quickly Give the other person some time to express his or her feelings, and you will earn your turn to be listened to while you are listening, you have to listen for the right information. The best way to dc th emotional situations is to forget most of the words because many people can't express whet they are.5 feeling with words alone, especially when they ara四et的:h:,出: But if the situation starts to get out of hand, it would be wiae to just calm down and leave the" problem until later because many fights happen at the wrong time. The situation wil die down quickly, usually in less than 30 seconds. You can either move on to problem soiving or reach an egreement to ,小…排:她物d是i5 work oa it at a better tim出动m动 This way, everyone will feel respected and listened to, even when there is conflict Emotions will b